Relationship Sermon. (1) Being too possessive- Are you a clingy girlfriend? I don’t blame you.. this is one major mistake many ladies make.. I have even known girls who go to the extent of following their guys wherever they go.. If you are constantly around your man or talking to him always on phone, you need to stop oh.. I have even seen girls who keep wrapping their arms around the partner in public and private as if they are declaring to the world that, ‘He is my private property. Keep away!’ Your partner may like your attention for some time but after that, he might get annoyed. If you do not draw the line at constantly wanting to be around your Boyfriend, then he will look for ways to get away from you rather than spend his time with you. (2) Not giving enough time to the Relationship: Girls want stability in relationships. They want relationships to end in the altar rather than break ups. Do not start talking about marriage and children too fast in your relationship. Allow things to take its natural course. Cherish your time together and do not rush your Guy, demanding commitment from him in the initial phases of a relationship. Just try to be hopeful, enjoy your romance than worry about future. (3) Not caring much about Appearance: Be presentable always. Make sure to look good and presentable in front of his family and friends. Dress decently.. When you are on a date out or spending time with him, make an effort to dress to impress. Take good care of your appearance and hygiene. (4) Taking your Guy for granted: Guys love attention too! Do things for your Guy. You may cook him a special dinner, arrange a romantic date, give him a surprise gift or do whatever you think he would like. Romantic gestures can also play an important role in keeping your man happy. When your man is down or depressed, be his support and shoulder. Give him motivation or pampering when he needs it. (5) Not being Respectful and Honest: Give your man the respect he deserves and never make him unimportant in front of others. Hiding secrets from your Boyfriend can harm your relationship. Even if you have done something you regret, it is better to tell him than let him find out on his own. Lies often get caught and he will lose all that trust he had on you. (6) Being too controlling: Allow your Man to make the first move. Men like to take the lead. Allow him to pursue you than the other way around. Let him plan the dates than you doing it from your side. This will help you know if he is genuinely interested in you or not. (7) Comparing with Ex and talking of your Past: Many girls make the mistake of comparing their current Boyfriend with their Ex. This is one of the best things a girl can do if she wants to chase the Guy away. Even if you are playing the game to see how your Guy would react or if it was a harmless comparison made without thinking, your Guy would take it as a sign that you have not fully moved on from your previous relationship. Even if he does not take it in that manner, comparisons are definitely going to hurt his ego and your relationship with him. (8) Trying to keep him away from his friends or Family: Are you someone who always looks for excuses to keep your Man away from his friends and family? Do you object when he tells that he wants to go out with his Guys and insist that he spends time with you? Hmmm..it’s time you change oh.. Just understand that his friends and family are part of his life, even before you. Be friendly with his family and friends but never cross your limits by being over friendly or dominating. (9) Not understanding your Partner: One main characteristic of a good girlfriend is that she understands her partner well and her Boyfriend can rely on her to be there for him when he needs her. That is where communication and spending quality time with your Guy regularly plays a vital role. Listen to his needs, worries and passions.. Also trust him with your concerns and problems. Be supportive to your Guy’s Career and Hobbies. Understand his problems and pressures. Try to adapt to his likes and interests (This does not mean that you have to give up yours oh)
Posted on: Tue, 24 Jun 2014 17:32:31 +0000
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