Relationship tips... 30s and further.. 1. If she’s over 35…and has never been married…and never had kids…there is a REASON. Tread carefully…as said chick is probably mental. Always a bridesmaid never a bride, starts to affect a woman after a while. Think of ANY woman you know that is over the age of 35…ANY woman…and I BET she’s crazy right? 2. If she owns a $1000 purse, but stays in an apartment…stay away. Yeah, the dude could have bought it for her, but that sets the bar on her expectations of YOU. The question is, is her mind on receiving things…more than it is on “building” with you? Is she looking for you to DELIVER her out of her own issues/problems/shortcomings (perceived or real), and not willing to do the same for you…or even herself? 3. Two baby fathers is fine…that can happen to any woman..but more than that? No go. Three baby fathers represents a PATTERN. There a probably a couple of terminated pregnancies scattered in there for good measure. You don’t want that problem son. That’s 3 dudes you have to be concerned about…whether they are involved in the kids life or not. Especially if they are NOT. You’ll be contending with their influence, even the influence of their ABSENCE in the kids lives…for your entire relationship. She could still be a good chick… just be prepared…that’s not for the faint of heart. 4. There is a difference between a woman that needs attention from you…vs…a woman that needs attention from MEN. Know the difference. Don’t be deceived thinking you’re the man and its all about you, because for a lot of these women…its not, its just that she needs MEN to validate her in general. Which leads me to my next rule. 5. If she has more than 20 “selfies” on facebook….tread carefully. Again…she needs validation. Not that women don’t want validation in general, or that its a bad thing, but if she NEEDS ninjas to tell her she’s pretty…this is going to affect you negatively as time progresses. I see COUNTLESS married chicks or chicks in relationships, posting se*y pictures on facebook, and every time I just smh and know she’s the most likely to let another ninja smash. Trust. 6. On the first date…if she doesn’t ask you at least 3 unsolicited questions about YOU, you should already know that this is for fun only and not going to be a serious relationship. Notice how some dates are just you asking her about HER and she telling you about HER, but not ever asking things about you. Selfish chicks do this a lot….and they can’t help it. It will ALWAYS be about her. Don’t say I didn’t warn you. 7. If you have kids and she doesn’t…this probably ain’t going far. Remember your life before you had kids and what you did, thought about, and how you lived your life? Notice how differently you think now…like something was revealed to you in your life that made you see things differently? She can’t relate. She’ll want all the attention, and can’t get it…given you are a decent father. If you ARE a good father, she’ll tell you how great that is…or how great you are…but subconsciously she’ll be competing for your mindshare. Just know that and be prepared. Women are competi*ive creatures…for EVERYTHING. 8. If she lets you hit raw the first time….do I need to say anything more? Do you really think you are so special that you are the only dude she’s let do that? Really? Come on dude. This is a crazy chick you are dealing with…that is using the Pu$$y to enslave you….quick. Frantic chick. Beware. 9. Stay away from complaining chicks. If more than 50% of your conversation with her is about her complaining about SOMETHING (job, kids, family, friends, etc.), best believe she is complaining about YOU to someone else. This won’t go well in a serious relationship. Just a couple of Thoughts?
Posted on: Sat, 23 Aug 2014 09:20:52 +0000