SOO TRUE - Please read this. Even if you dont know someone who has lost a child, chances are you will know someone in your lifetime. YOU DO NOT EVER QUIT GRIEVING THE LOSS OF A CHILD, PERIOD! CAPITAL LETTERS!!! You may get better at the everyday task of living, you will laugh again, you will celebrate, you will feel satisfaction and happiness, but you will ALWAYS GRIEVE YOUR CHILD!! That child is a part of you and always will be. If you feel so stuck that you just cant move and you cant perform the tasks of daily living, you might need help. It never hurts to talk to a counselor who is used to dealing with these things. And of course you always need prayer and spiritual input - we all do. But until that day when you are reunited with your loved one, YOU WILL GRIEVE. You will miss your child at birthdays and christmas and special times. Smells, sites, activities will bounce them back into your thoughts and remind them of times you spent together. You will t remembe special times and smile and celebrate all of what they meant and still mean to you. But sudden tears and feelings of lonliness and separation are NORMAL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Please, people. Think about this and how to respond to a parent who has lost a child. If you dont know how to respond then DONT! If you have not lost a child, you really cannot completely understand this! So please dont try to give advice. A simple hug - Im thinking about you, Im praying for you will be sufficient. Dont say anymore!!
Posted on: Thu, 13 Mar 2014 14:17:38 +0000
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