Salam Both my parents have passed away. Nonethe less I share this posting for the benefit of friends who still have at least one parent. 35 Ways to Respect your Parents. May Allah give us the sense of ability to follow these guidelines. Aameen. 1. Put away your phone in their presence. 2. Pay attention to what they are saying. 3. Accept their opinions. 4. Engage in their conversations. 5. Look at them with respect. 6. Always praise them. 7. Share good news with them. 8. Avoid sharing bad news with them. 9. Speak well of their friends and loved ones to them. 10. Keep in remembrance the good things they did. 11. If they repeat a story, listen like its the first time they tell it. 12. Dont bring up painful memories from the past. 13. Avoid side conversations in their presence. 14. Sit respectfully around them. 15. Dont belittle/criticize their opinions and thoughts. 16. Avoid cutting them off when they speak. 17. Respect their age. 18. Avoid hitting/disciplining their grandchildren around them. 19. Accept their advice and direction. 20. Give them the power of leadership when they are present. 21. Avoid raising your voice at them. 22. Avoid walking in front or ahead of them. 23. Avoid eating before them. 24. Avoid glaring at them. 25. Fill them with pride even when they dont think they deserve it. 26. Avoid putting your feet up in front of them or sitting with your back to them. 27. Dont speak ill of them to the point where others speak ill of them too. 28. Keep them in your prayers always possible. 29. Avoid seeming bored or tired of them in their presence. 30. Avoid laughing at their faults/mistakes. 31. Do a task before they ask you to. 32. Continuously visit them. 33. Choose your words carefully when speaking with them. 34. Call them by the names they like. 35. Make them your priority above anything. Parents are treasure on this land and sooner than you think, that treasure will be buried. Appreciate your parents while you still can. Today lets make loads of duas for our beloved parents, alive or deceased. If you love Your parents please forward this dua! Ya Allah ease the burdens of our beloved parents, آمِيْن يَارَبَّ الْعَالَمِينْ Ya Allah remove their burdens due to debt, آمِيْن يَارَبَّ الْعَالَمِينْ Ya Allah ease their pain, آمِيْن يَارَبَّ الْعَالَمِينْ Ya Allah give shifa for the diseases theyre suffering from, آمِيْن يَارَبَّ الْعَالَمِينْ Ya Allah never make them dependent on anyone besides YOU until their last breath, آمِيْن يَارَبَّ الْعَالَمِينْ . We should respect and honour our parents. Never hurt them, part of the reason of all the troubles theyre undergoing is due to us. Their debts are due to fulfilling our needs, Their poor health is due to their efforts in giving us the best. Their every breath is a sacrifice made for their children Ya Allah bless our parents with happiness. Make a promise that you will at least do one thing today which will make Your parents happy. It is an Amanah that we pray for our parents Allahumma irhamhumaa kamaa rabbayaanaa sagheeraa. (Oh, Allah, have mercy upon them as they have raised me from the cradle) May Allah bless our parents with good health, wealth, deen and blessings. Aameen. Pass this dua so that as many parents get this beautiful dua. One parent can take care of seven children, pity that seven children together cannot take care of one parent. May Allah bless our parents & for those whose parents have passed on may اَللَّه سُبْحَانَهُ وَتعالي grant them & all the departed souls the highest stages in al jannah!!! إن شَاءَ أللَّهُ آمــــين
Posted on: Fri, 04 Jul 2014 22:34:17 +0000
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