Salams sisters I have been married for few years with a good husband and two kids. The journey towards what i have today was extremely difficult. My husband wanted to marry me and proposed through mutual friends and i agreed. He told his mother and she complained she never got to choose his wife. Eventualy families agreed and we were to get married. A month later my mother was diagnosed with cancer with life span of 6 months. My family pleaded to bring marriage forward so my mother could do my rukhsati, but my inlaws declined. When my mum was nearing her last days they agreed for just nikah with no rukhsati. My mother passed away and trouble began. My motherinlaw insisted we still have lavish wedding, as it was HER sons wedding and should go her way. My family said wev just lost our mum we want simple farewell for our daughter. My motherinlaw caused fight on my mums funeral also arguing with my mums friend. And argued with family members at my house when we were to read quran for my mother. My simple wedding day came and went to live with my inlaws I was taunted every day they would say your family wanted to get rid of you after your mum died and my family were cheap to do simple wedding for me and i didnt bring much dowry ie furniture etc. They would swear and curse my family, my husband would try to protect me but with no sucess. I had a job would come home and cook clean for them but was never enough as i was a burden on them. My family were not allowed to visit me nor was i allowed to talk about them. Alhamdalillah iv moved out and im happier now but im so resentful and iv so much hatred i want to remove it from my heart, i want to move forward what do i do? My motherinlaw talks to me i cant even look at her i cant handle it she was so evil to me, shes only half decent to me now as iv got her grandchildren,what do i do and how do i move forward?
Posted on: Fri, 02 Jan 2015 19:01:01 +0000