Sandra Scott, speak on Charmer and Con Artist Charmers, are often described as“the nicest guy you could ever know,”but in relationships they are very controlling, self irresponsible serving, and seldom agree to therapy. They don’t see a problem withthem selves so why should they change? If they go to therapy, they try to charm the therapist. look good on the outside, but an ulterior motive lurks on the inside see themselves as victims rather than those they hurt believe they are special and entitled to special behavior; rules that apply to others do not apply to them have their own brand of logic and an excuse for everything. Can apologize easily, but there is no true repentance don’t feel love or guilt deeply, tend to minimize the pain of those they have hurt discredit their accusers when they are confronted cope by making themselves the hero in the worst situations are very clever, and often able to keep from being caught, have extreme shifts in personality, maybe kind and sarcasticin the same instant are very needy, and blame others for not being able to meet their needs appear to be very sensitive to others, and use their sense of humor to make other slaugh or feel good shift attention off themselves onto others to keep from being found out depend on lies and deception to maintain a good image. Con Artist, are motivated by greed for material gain choose those to whom they show genuine love and affection, with the capability of killing a stranger or enemy without regret have a selective conscience with their own code of ethics know right from wrong, but choose to do wrong to get what they want seek trusting or naïve people to con often back off or move on to con someone else when they don’t get what they want will resort to violence when they cannot escape make the conscious choice to do evil don’t mind hurting others as long as they get what they want. Sandra Scott summarizes the charmer and con artist this way: “ A healthy person seeks to A Charmer seeks to be because he be good. perceived as good desperately needs to believe he is good, because he fears he isn’t. A con artist seeks to be perceived in order to get what he wants.” as good Her warning should be taken seriously: “ The con artist can rob you of your time, energy and money. The Charmer can rob you of your youth, your integrity, your selfesteem, your very soul. The con artist robs and leaves you sadder but wiser.The Charmer rapes your spirit and drags you with him into his own personal hell. Pastor N. Simpson recommended this book. From the lit bit I read seem like a very good read. Get the book and read!!
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