Sejak kebelakangan ini saya byk sangat membaca tulisan tentang isteri menanggung keperluan rumah. Should wife help out or should it be solely on the husband, the leader of the house? I agree that it is the husbands responsibility to do so, and not the wives. But I also believe that if the wives want total responsibility to be shouldered by the husband, then it should be so. But, as a Muslim wive, please attempt the checklist below, which I created. If you want your husband to be responsible, then you ALSO HAVE TO BE RSEPONSIBLE. only then, you can expect him to shoulder all the expenses! Are you responsible in terms of the following criteria(?): YES, Always= 3 marks, Sometimes= 2 marks, NO, Never= 1 mark 1. Berhijab (you cover your aurat in TOTAL). No, berbaju kebaya and a short, brief tudung that still exposes the size and shape of your breasts do NOT COUNT! Or a slit here and there that shows your white calf, also do not count.Skin-tight and body-shape dresses are not worn to offices but to bedroom. 2. You only makeup for your husband (night and day). You dont go to office like you are the movie star of the year! Oh...and the make-up is a full-pledged one, not a simple lip glossing! You dont look like Hantu Kak Limah Balik Kampung when you at home! 3. You wear the best dresses while dining at home with your hubby, with cleavage all showing! You also play the role of a sultry waitress in a red kebaya! You dont wear such dresses to company dinners, lunch meetings etc. 4. You always smell pleasant at home when you are with your hubby. You dont smell like belacan or ikan kering hangit around your hubby. You dont go to office smelling like an entire florist selling roses and jasmines but when you come back from home you smell like a jaded bunga tahi ayam. 5. You seek permission of your beloved hubby to go out of the house or even to do something outside the house (with exception of emergencies) 6. You never knew how to yell at your hubby even for the slightest mistakes that he would have done, just like you wouldnt yell at your boss for making you do things that you feel is not fair or not related to your work specifications! 7. You are always smiling and greeting you hubby with love, tender and care, just like you would smile and greet your clients, your bosses and colleagues at the office. 8. The house, especially the bedroom looks like a room in heaven - well kept, clean, covered with lavishly sweet romantic scent and fragrant, just like your office table is. No, it does not look like a store room from The Nightmare at Elm Street! 9. You are the winner of various Master Chef competition. An excellent cook, who is always thinking of new dishes to please your hubby. No, you dont do sambal ikan bilis everytime just because your hubbys only food when he went to school was nasi lemak. 10. Having said the above 9 criteria, you dont come out with your own questionnaire that a hubby should answer because you understand that as a muslim wife, your duty is to please your hubby first as your jannah is determined by him, and him only (apart from obeying Allah and Rasul) If you scores 25-30, then your husband should pay for ALL, including your toilet paper!! Well done! If you score 18 to 24, then you should share household expenses equally with your husband. If you score less than 17, dont bother asking any money from him! Most probably, he would prefer rearing goats and cows... You are just a symbol of what any husband would despise the most! Note: This was done with a bit of the following: - reminder, care, love, sarcasm, fun, enjoyment, boredom etc!
Posted on: Wed, 10 Dec 2014 04:24:32 +0000
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