Send us your messages. Read some messages posted and i thought about sending mine too :) I always have been the shy girl, never got much attention, or friends, was most of the time by myself.. Then one day i met a guy, and dated him for 5 years, I met his parents and he met mine.He was my first boyfriend. Then found out he was cheating on me, he was the kind of guy that liked flirting while keeping his prize in a well locked cupboard... I was heart broken, cried all the time, lost weight, i wanted to stop my studies, i lost my smile.. I started to change, that naive, shy girl no longer existed. She hardened, became stronger, stopped crying, and struggled to get to her feet. But while doing all this, she also kept her distance with everyone around her, she even became mean with those around her. I cursed all guys, and swore to myself ill never ever trust someone again..The caring, friendly, all the time smiling girl became dull and mean. Still, her few close friends and family stayed by her side. A few weeks later, I met a guy, at my university, we became friends, he also just broke up with his first girlfriend. We became very close, talked everyday,supported and helped each other and saw each other. I never knew that would happen but guys...I fell in love ! We started dating, and there was not a single day that he was not there for me. Thanks to him I found my smile back :) He taught me to love my life, love myself...I lost all this dullness and bitterness i felt before. Now, almost three years later, I proudly say that I AM happy. We are planning our engagement and future together :) and i love him more than ever. Its like God saw I was drifting away and sent me ene gillet de sauvetage. I also got closer to my friends and family, and will soon get my degree... I found the old me again, except that I am not shy at all :P I started living, going out, found new wonderful friends. So here is what i learned and what i want to share with you. 1) If something bad happens to you, there is a reason for it, thats because something more wonderful awaits you!! 2) Dont EVER lose yourself because of someone else. Let it strengthen you, but NOT destroy the good in you!!... 3) You will always lose people , friends, lovers, people will come and go... But your family will always be there! Dont be scared to talk to your mom or dad, or sister or bro, you will be amazed at how they can help and support you.. 4) to girls out here : Dont let yourself be miserable for a guy that doesnt deserve you. Life is too short, move forward, you never know what will happen tomorrow, and never settle for less... Now my new motto is : Meet new people, laugh, smile, move forward, do what makes you happy, and never let someone dull your sunshine :) Sent by : Mélissa C. Latouche
Posted on: Tue, 11 Feb 2014 12:00:24 +0000
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