So, I just realized (because I have been preoccupied), that not only is today Veterans day, but it is also my 3 year anniversary from getting my honorable discharge from the Army. I got out on 11-11-11. I cant believe it has been three years already. It has been a roller coaster since I have gotten out. Emotionally, financially, spiritually, educationally, and with my relationships both platonic and romantic. Two of the main things a transitioning soldier will lose when going back into the civilian life are a supper network, and structure. Often times, someone will get out and not really have a solid plan, which is why they end up in a bad predicament. The support network in the military cant really be emulated. You have dozens of people you can talk to on a daily basis and rely on. The same with the structure. When the civilian life doesnt provide these things, it is hard to adapt for a lot of people. As strong as I am mentally with all the shit I have gone through, it has been extremely difficult for me to adapt to the civilian life. Figuring out what I want to do, go to school for, where I want to live, with relationships, etc. I take most of it in stride, because well, I can handle things better than most. Unfortunately, most people cant do that. That is why I wish there was a better system in place for veterans. I have had my fair share of ups and downs. My lowest point was this past summer. It hit me the hardest since getting out that I didnt really know what direction I wanted to go. Luckily, I have found myself in a gig where I am extremely happy. I am still finishing school, and some good doors are opening for me. Despite the fact that this transition has been fairly unstable, I dont really regret the decision I made to get out. I miss my brothers. I miss the weekends. I miss the barracks. But thats about it. Just know that when you thank a Veteran, the things they have gone through/are going through are sometimes things that most people couldnt fathom, and hold onto that perspective. This will ensure your sentiments arent generic, and far more heart felt. I promise, we will sincerely appreciate it.
Posted on: Wed, 12 Nov 2014 02:36:25 +0000
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