So often we are blinded by the things we want in our lives that we blind ourselves to the real things that we deserve. We are so caught up with wanting a quick fix that we lie to ourselves in to thinking that those quick fixes are what we NEED. I know Ive made that mistake quite often in my life. I know Im far from perfect and have stumbled a few times, but those falls have merely shown me what I truly deserve. We as humans want that feeling of being wanted that knowing someone wants to please me and do things with me with total disregard to those people around them that those decisions may affect. When was the last time anyone as couple went to the movies individually without the other person? When was the last time any one person who is in a relationship said to themselves damn, I remember when I used to do this before so&so and I got together? Why must we as humans have that need to be wanted and loved, as if that is going to fix us or make us feel better about ourselves as an individual. When one actually loves himself enough to walk with his head held high and ACTUALLY learn to love and appreciate their time spent looking inward then and truly then will that person be ready to give themselves to another. What are my deepest fears? What do I actually want out of life? How can I better myself as a person to later know what I bring to the table what can I LEARN TODAY?! What are my boundaries in a relationship? What should accept and not accept from my significant other? Am I willing enough to compromise certain aspects of my life to make my significant other happy? Or am I going to be selfish and say its my way or nothing, Can I actually love this person unconditionally or make their life harder when times get sticky the skies are grey? Can I truly trust this other person with my deepest fears and allow them to see me vulnerable? Can I truly be naked(spiritually, mentally, and emotionally) without fear of being condemned and judged? These r just a smidget of the questions I ask myself and why I have come to accept and realize my past encounters were never going to succeed and why they failed. It wasnt until I TRULY accepted myself and MY past mistakes and learned from them that I really saw people in a different light. Be honest with yourself and love yourself first because u really cant love anyone until u love yourself first. ::just a thought that was floating around in my head::
Posted on: Tue, 30 Dec 2014 16:25:45 +0000
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