"Something to consider here is how it just may be the act of learning to ignore the ‘small annoyances’ that is the actual danger we are tuning out as it is through this that we accept ourselves as limited, as ignorant and as unable to ‘deal’ with our reality directly, especially with regards to developing stable relationships that are based on trust and real consideration for the other as oneself. We are thus making a statement in these moments that we would rather save our mind than our relationship. We are stating that we do not understand ourselves and that we cannot direct our experience in a way that is effective and REAL, taking into consideration all factors involved and not just disregarding what is here within an underpinning of blame projected onto another as them being ‘annoying.’ What we are not allowing ourselves to see in these moments is that the experience of annoyance has NOTHING at ALL to do with the ‘other’ as the experience is entirely self-generated internally. The ‘other’ did not reach inside of us and tinker with our internal experiential mechanism so as to diabolically control our sense of annoyance. When stated like this it certainly seems preposterous, yet we still go through our day to day living acting as if this type of interacting with our environment, with our relationships, is valid and justifiable."
Posted on: Mon, 01 Jul 2013 13:48:12 +0000
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