Sometimes doing the right is not the best choice. Anybody will tell you that if you get somebody pregnant, youre supposed to marry them, because thats whats right. Well youre supposed to get married because you have courted that person, got to know them, and fell in love. Marry out of love for one another people. Now if you do get somebody pregnant, be a man, step up and take care of your child, because you can be a good dad without being a husband. This brings you to whats going to be one of your biggest obstacles, baby momma drama, because more than likely she wants to be married to you. And she will be quick to point out that you shouldnt have been sticking your thing if you werent ready, but remember it takes 2, so she shouldnt be opening her legs either. Family is a blessing that will consume your time and will take dedication, so make sure its what both of you want and are willing to go through it together. Some people that are not ready or compatible to raise a child will get together just because of an unexpected pregnancy to do whats right. Well they have made their parents happy because theyre together, but will always be fighting, therefore they raise their kids in a hostile environment. If the resentment and pressure is not handled correctly, they will make shitty parents. Im not going through anything, or posting to attack others, but just maybe somebody will read this and think twice about their actions and do whats best, which is not always whats right I do realize every situation is different, but in the end we all have the same issues we need to resolve. Dont take any of this personal, because Im not falling to any one specific person, Im just speaking in general. Im not judging either, nobody is perfect.
Posted on: Tue, 20 May 2014 16:09:17 +0000
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