Straight Talking: Yesterday, I said, when men are emotional, some turn to withdraw and keep themselves away from you the lady in his life. This sometime drives we ladies crazy, feeling desperate, frightened, angry as we don’t know why his sudden behaviour and when we try to know why, sometimes backfires on us. In situation like this, we ladies need to act with care to turn things around without aggravating the situation even more. This is the time to swift energies- a boy’s energy and a girl’s energies. What is girl energy? being a girl means- being strong on the inside and soft on the outside. It means- you trust yourself, feel strong, capable, confident, independent and powerful on your inside - like you could handle anything - and then you allow your heart and your feelings to show completely on your outside. - Use this energy when your man withdraws to open up and reconnect to the relationship again... almost instantly. Cos, if, you are able to get him to talk and you listen to him, he will probably tell you what is wrong. Also, you will be able to think around the issue and reach a solution when you finally know what is bugging him. Wont you ??? What is boy energy. boy energy is a pure burst of energy to get things done. -Its the masculine side of we ladies, and its absolutely fantastic energy to get stuff done out there in the world when were trying to accomplish something. However, in a relationship, a boy energy is just a cover up. It covers up what girl energy is all about - our own connection to our deepest feelings. So, when your man withdraws and you switch hats by putting on a boy’s energy, it will feels to him like a cold, hard, emotional defence. Or, it can look like attacking him, acting like we dont care, playing games, stop trusting him, being emotionally dramatic and mean to him in an underhanded, sideways kind of way. When we behave like these, the man will start to act like- staying late at work, avoiding you even more, sleeping in the sofa etc. When the situation reaches this stage, If you don’t take care, it will drag on and eventually reach an un-reverse stage and you will see the relationship end. It’s therefore, important to know when to switch hats. Cos, the moment you feel strong inside enough , open up more on the outside - to let your man IN instead of closing up more and more out of fear and anger – and you will see your relationship will turn around,
Posted on: Sun, 06 Apr 2014 06:08:35 +0000
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