Subtle way of controlling people is when we change our behavior, like getting angry, hurt, sulking, not talking to them, till they do what we want them to do. When we ask people to do things in a particular and they do it our way, we feel we control them and they feel they are being controlled, both are not true and it makes both weak. The one who feels they can control will always have the fear of what if they lose control. Their happiness will always be dependent on the other person doing things their way. The one who is listening to others needs to be aware that they are choosing to obey for certain reasons. Important is they are making the choice, they are not being controlled. A powerful being is not the one who is able to control others, but the one who is able to control themselves.
Posted on: Sat, 26 Oct 2013 10:07:58 +0000
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