THE BEST TEST OF THAT FEELING YOU CALL LOVE. (Take your love test now and score yourself ) Its not every person you fall in love with who CAN really REALLY love you. Its not everyone you fall in love with who is worthy of your love. Notice I didnt say they are incapable if falling in love with you, or want you for other reasons, they may in fact fall helplessly in love with you and YET lack the capacity to love you genuinely and thats bcos there IS a huuuuge difference between LOVE & FALLING IN LOVE! Read This! Very few people marry for the right reasons and with the right motives and to the persons. First it must be noted that marriage is the deepest relationship there can be amongst human beings, at least thats how God designed it to be. Every human being have a strange capacity for love, both to give and to receive it. Take into cognisance also that almost everyone on this planet have at least one person he/she can DIE for and I mean that literally. Not everyone knows this as long as all is well, but when occasions show up we have seen people of low morals suddenly turn selfless. There is nobility in every person you see. Certain circumstances bring out that quality in all of us but until then we all can lay claim to that human propensity for self centeredness that seem so natural. Besides there is a figurative sense to dying for someone; it doesnt mean you have to die any time soon but we all have that great quality deep within us all to give ourselves for the advantage of another even to that ultimate point of... yeah...DEATH !! Now here is what I think about marriage. NO ONE OUGHT TO EVEN ATTEMPT MARRIAGE WITHOUT BEING CERTAIN THAT HIS/HER PARTNER IS THAT ONE PERSON HE/SHE COULD LAY DOWN HIS/HER LIFE FOR. Have I gone too far? Not when you bear in mind that we are all capable of giving our lives for at least one person on this planet and I honestly cant figure out why it shouldnt be our spouses. Who else then? Gal 5:22 -25. When you see flagrant betrayal and cheating between husbands and wives you would realize that there is no life to the sacred vows they took on the alter at their wedding. I thought when a man/woman chooses to marry one person it should mean that that person is worth his/her very life to all extents. I thought that was the license needed to make the couple to walk away from the alter determined to take absolute and sacrificial responsibility for the success of each other. Could one be this busy and still have time for trivials, for betrayal and cheating ? Can you even attempt to imagine what the mentality would be like when a man and a woman who consider each other as worthy of their very lives decides to come together as husband and wife? No, they are not just going to sit and mop around expecting death, No, No and No! When it is mutual, it could be really wonderful. Its the only known fomula to live without holding back, HOW EXCITING! You can expect them to take much bigger risks for each other and everyday to be fired and alive for them. What a life?!! I just wonder!! ANYONE WHO DESERVES YOUR LOVE SHOULD ALSO DESERVE YOUR LIFE OR ELSE HE/SHE DOESNT DESERVE ANY OF THE TWO. Love is a serious matter.
Posted on: Wed, 22 Jan 2014 10:10:16 +0000
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