THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN LOVE AND FALLING IN LOVE What most people know and call love is that pleasant intense and gripping emotional state that causes hearts to palpitate and to flutter in valveless bliss. Call it a positive heart attack and suddenly we begin to see there is other side to even a lethal disease. Some people call it emotional fire, or emotional fever; a heart quake of some sort. Its something worth experiencing forever baring all the heart aches and breaks and love accidents that unfortunately ends more than 80% of all these experiences. The falling IN love experience, is that love? Well most people think it is and who can say they are in error. They speak solely of what they know, what they have personally experienced. Is this all there is? Is this love, TRUE LOVE? Something this beautiful should never fizzled, it should never dwindle or die. But it does and too often and so many times too soon !! Love has got to be more than that and most assuredly it is. The emotions is only a fraction of the main substance called love. Emotional fire is important but not as important as the whole entity called love. One big error of the illiterate is the tendency to fully represent an entire WHOLE with a fraction of it, especially the jelly part that requires little or no conscious effort. So as corruption is represented with bribery, and wealth represented with money and money alone, so is the vast empire of love often entirely represented with that familiar exploding and imploding emotions alone. Well more than 80% of the world are illiterate in matters of love beyond an emotions on auto-pilot. Take a thorough inventory of people who are having love crashes and love accidents and you would quickly realise that it includes the most intelligent people in the world. Doctors, philosophers, engineer, poets,entertainers, pastors , farmers, unlettered, Everybody! Why ??! Because LOVE-INTELLIGENCE is not cheap, it doesnt COME naturally as they say. It is not on the same level with other human intelligence. It is not taught in any formal school anywhere in the world. Most people dont even know that love operates beyond the taken for granted natural academic intelligence, but thats the truth otherwise all educated people would have earned the right to wallow in unending, uninhibited and uninterrupted bliss of romance. Emotions and falling in love is cheap because it doesnt require much of vigilance or natural competence. Its a feeling and feelings needs no external help to arrive at interpretations; everybody...anybody can feel can fall in love, from the highly learned to the lowly the peasants. The heavy casualty rate has forced most of the world to surrender to the defeatist belief that love runs on luck and so everyone is trying to get lucky. The only positive I can take from this thinking is the admittance of nearly everyone in the world that love operates outside and beyond the limits of academic and normal human reasoning. So what is love? Is it the boring resolve to babysit some odd unresponsive and unlovable fellow? I think not. How is love different from emotions and where do they meet ? For the records it must be said that falling in love is extremely important. However, love is far greater than feelings. Love is the compelling MOTIVATION to GIVE ADVANTAGE to someone else. Hmmmm! Could you please read that again, s l o w l y. To love somebody is to become a miracle for that person. You want to be responsible for the persons success in all the ways you can. The feelings helps but its not the substance. Feeling should follow substance and not the other way round. As you must have experienced, feelings cannot sustain itself. Feelings require a voracious source of fueling. Pampering, worship, and feeling reserves no absolute loyalty to anyone. The most gratifying source of fueling becomes its new attraction. Feeling is polygamous. It goes in the direction of its most pleasurable massage. Love is a resolve to give a life-time advantage to someone else and when this is mutual you find heaven on earth. Feelings is naturally sustained in this type of mix. The couple become an impregnable team. People sat they are lucky. No, they operate love intelligence. There is no struggle for power, no superiority contest. In fact you want your partner to be the best he/she can be because you know its all for your own advantage. Love is more than falling in love. Feeling cannot survive without bread and butter. Love has faith to produce bread, butter, milk and honey and it also has the patient to be responsible for making it happen. Feelings has no guaranties, but love is guarantee!! Feelings is important but love is LIFE!! Share if you can
Posted on: Wed, 16 Jul 2014 09:19:33 +0000
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