THESE ARE COMMENTS IN ANOTHER GROUP UNDER MY JUST ANOTHER PAY-PER-VIEW HO POST I dont control or try to control how a female thinks and behave. I do not have LOW SELF-ESTEEM and I DONT DEVALUE MYSELF to a point where I FEEL THE NEED to PAY a females way in order to have her SPEND TIME with me. If I have to do that, I simply go and enjoy my time by myself until I meet the next one. What I dont do is BUY TIME from a female. If wanting to be in my company is not enough, then I leave her to the dudes that FEEL THE NEED or ENJOYS PAYING. [Ruby Love] Heres my persona general guidelines. If we go Dutch, not a date. If you asked me out, you pay. If I asked you out, Ill pay. I NEVER pay for a first date. I will offer to handle the tip or if I ordered an extra drink. Chilling at your house or my house isnt an acceptable first date. 11 mins · Like [Jai Duval] Ruby Love please explain what you mean if we go Dutch, not a date? Its things like this that I try and get guys to RESPOND in a BENEFICIAL manner. thanks in advance for your explanation. [Ruby Love] I personally....dont see going Dutch as a date. I spilt the tab with friends. And I rarely do that. My friends and I trade off picking up the tab usually. So no, I dont see splitting the tab as a date. Im always prepared to pay because my father taught me not to go out broke. That if I couldnt afford to take myself there, I shouldnt be there. But that if a man is worth me considering a relationship with...he will pay. He asked. [Jai Duval] I am trying to convince the CAREER ambitious males to look elsewhere in other cultures and races for females that will VALUE the content of their character (how they behave with them) and NOT the content of their wallet (paying a females way in order to be with her). Some are beginning to listen to me but the majority will still be around to CATER to your desires. Good luck with them [Ruby Love] I personally....dont see going Dutch as a date. I split the tab with friends. And I rarely do that. My friends and I trade off picking up the tab usually. So no, I dont see splitting the tab as a date. Im always prepared to pay because my father taught me not to go out broke. That if I couldnt afford to take myself there, I shouldnt be there. But that if a man is worth me considering a relationship with...he will pay. He asked. [Ruby Love] Im a daddys girl from the country with SOME traditional values. Thats why I say my personal guidelines. [Jai Duval] Ruby Love thanks for that explanation. I will use your information in one of my classes. [Ruby Love] If you wish. [CONCLUSION] You have to know who you are dealing with and ACCEPT how they think. Dont try to change them. If you LIKE paying for company, then by all means do so. If you DONT LIKE paying for company and you feel that YOU should be good enough, then walk away from these types because their are other females that DONT THINK like this. Its your choice.
Posted on: Wed, 09 Jul 2014 04:35:43 +0000
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