THINK LIKE A WOMAN IF YOURE A WOMAN: Many women never find themselves at the side of the right man, because they take absolutely NO TIME learning how to be the right help. Allah (God) doesnt just give out husbands/wives. Sorta like Principles dont just hand out diplomas. If you dont do the work, you dont make the grade, if you dont make the grades, you dont walk the stage. Its the same way with wanting someone right in your life. Life is one big classroom. Allah (God) delegates teachers and counselors to everyone. In my own personal observation, most women who carry the think like a man attitude, not only dont do their homework, but they dont show up to class to know what it is theyre supposed to be learning. Instead they reach for logic in attempting to think like a man, because they refuse to believe that their relationship woes and bad experiences have just as much to do with who they are as it does the men theyve been with. Sure Allah (God) has someone who is perfect for you. Not a perfect individual, just a perfect fit. But Allah (God) also has a standard. You can skip class in HS half your senior year, and still find a way to graduate, granted you know the work. But in life you cant skip out on half the lessons you need for yourself, while looking for a scholar at the same time. Doesnt work like that. You cant call on the media (reality tv, music, movies) to be your personal home schooler, and expect to gain the same results had you gone to your maker. That home schooler called the media has hundreds of thousands of women confused. Trying to think like men, thinking Mr. Wrong is so good, thinking a mans money is a womans future, etc etc..All of this, the result of bad teaching and women listening to the wrong counsel. No, im not saying everyone jump up and go sit in a church from sun up to sun down as often as possible. (Although, thats what most of us need..so maybe I am saying that) ...But what Im definitely saying is, consider this - Until you acknowledge your Maker and attempt to understand the way He views you in His eyes, you might never know how to display anything more than what a man is drawn to with his natural eyes. Many men lust what they see, the right man will love who you are, and many women live their entire lives never being able to tell the two apart because they never take the time to really learn themselves. The more clarity you have about you, the more clarity you gain about others. You want the gown, and you wanna walk the isle? You first have to learn the requirements of being a wife, just like the student who wants the cap & gown and diploma has to learn the work and pass the exams. OR you can settle for following your own guidance, settling for make up to break up boyfriend ordeals, and marriage crashes like many choose to do in this day & age. Theres always a choice with no force. The wrong man can be a distraction IF YOU LET HIM, but no man or woman can make you fail at being the right woman if youre determined to pay attention to the right teaching, and make it to the isle.
Posted on: Tue, 05 Aug 2014 00:19:02 +0000
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