THIS MIGHT HELP SOMEONE WITH COMMITMENT ISSUES. So all last night I was digging to find why I have so much trouble in relationships. My main problem was I had no patience and was so quick to dismiss my g/fs. After about 2 hours I found out why. My first real relationship was 2 years long. I lost complete interest after about 4 months, but I stayed for reasons that wont be said as I dont want to be insulting. Well things got worse and worse until I started to become miserable, then I just decided I had it and left. After that. One day I was basking in my freedom and promised myself I will never be stuck AGAIN!! So that led to me 1)being super reluctant to ever date exclusively. 2)entering relationships looking for the back door right away. And 3) being impatient and intolerant, never being willing to work things out with ANYBODY. My relationships all died in 3months or less to a point where I stopped even expecting anyone to be around longer than 2 weeks. NOW that I realized that I had a fear of being stuck(I seriously used to wonder if I was ever going to escape her), and understand that I could never really be stuck, I have the space and ability to be patient, be tolerant, understanding, cooperative...I can actually allow something to grow instead of killing it before it starts. #freedom
Posted on: Mon, 11 Nov 2013 13:09:02 +0000
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