TO PEOPLE WHO FEEL INSECURE ABOUT THEMSELVES: Girl, boy, whatever you are, we all come to that point in life that we feel very insecure about ourselves. Maybe its about your look, maybe its about your character, your skills, your friends, ... Weve all been insecure about something. But you know what? If you keep telling yourself Im no good. Im ugly. Im stupid. etc... then youre never going to think otherwise about yourself. Or is it someone else that said that to you? A bully? A mean person in your class? Its not because THEY think your ugly or stupid (and most of the times they dont even think that, theyre just saying that to make you feel bad), doesnt mean that you ARE. One person might not like you, but 9 others do. And from those 9 people, one of them should be you. You will never be able to make others happy, please others and take care of other people, if you cant even do that for yourself. You think your friends and family will ever be happy if they see you walking around looking like you want to kill yourself? No, they wont. In fact, youll only make them UNhappy. The exact opposite of what you want. Ive been there. I lost friends because of my insecurities. But I realised that its stupid, that if I ever want to be someone, and be important that I need to feel confident about myself. And its okay to say about yourself that youre beautiful! I feel like most of the times people are scared to call themselves beautiful, because others will think they have an ego. First of all, stop thinking so much about what others think of you. Most people wholl read this are cosplayers, and you dont give a shit about what people think about your hobby, otherwise you wouldnt be doing it. So why do you give a shit what others think if youd call yourself beautiful? The same for recognizing your own skills. I am good at making cosplays, no Im not the best, but I can freaking sew, and guess what? I learned it from youtube! Same for make up! You dont have a hobby or you really cant come up with a skill? Maybe its time to try some stuff out then. Nobody came to this world without a purpose. Even if its a small thing, you CAN do something. If you have a dream, live up to it, and if you dont have a dream (like me at the very moment), then look for it! I know, thats easily said .. but no one said life is easy, but that doesnt mean its impossible. If youre ever down, talk to someone. And if they give you advise, dont throw it away, but remember it and maybe ... maybe you should actually consider doing or using the advice that person gave to you. FOR EXAMPLE Insecure person: I think Im ugly. Person: I think youre beautiful. Insecure person: No, Im really ugly. ... Lets do that again. Insecure person: I think Im ugly. Person: I think youre beautiful. Insecure person: Really? Thank you. If someone gives you a compliment, theyre not lying. If they dont think youre beautiful then they wont tell you that either (youre basically calling them a liar.) And say THANK YOU when youre given a compliment, its RUDE not to say thank you, manners much. But seriously, saying thank you instead of denying it will help too. The reason Im posting this status is because I still see too much depressing facebook statuses. Putting your feelings on facebook wont help too much either, its better to talk to a close friend about it and if its really deep, dont be afraid to look for professional help. You might be amazed about what that can do. I dont know if this will help anyone, or if it will reach the people it should reach. But Im so sick and tired of seeing my past self in others. I know that I went from ugly duck to beautiful swan and Im not afraid to admit it. Im happy with the way I look, Im happy with the skills I have. Nope, I have no exact idea of what I will do in the future, but thats for the future, not for now. And I just want everyone to think like this. Be more confident about yourself, instead of looking at all the things you dislike about yourself, look at the things you actually like about yourself. And dont say I dont like anything, cause youre just lying to yourself and we all know that. Again, dont know if this will help anyone, but I just had to share it. Maybe Ill even make a video about it, because this is such an important matter. Every year, still some many people kill themselves over such stupid reasons, while the solution might have been so close. Please give this a share or a like or something, because its so important to know yourself and love yourself. Be strong and be patient, the past is in the past and the future will be better.
Posted on: Sun, 23 Nov 2014 21:38:14 +0000
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