TO SINGLE CHRISTIAN MEN.. God made you the head and authority and master over us. Since, you are the head you are expected to be wise and responsible. You cant be unwise and irresponsible and expect to get a good woman who will respect, submit and obey you. You are supposed to be hardworking and provide for the family. It is your responsibility to work hard and provide for your wife and children. It is not the womans responsibility to work hard and feed you and buy you cloths you are not a BABY u are the Man supposed to be the head, its ok if for situations sake the woman has to work cos you are not finding a job, or you are sick or something but dont marry a woman with the intention that she has a good job and she should be the one feeding you and taking care of you. God made you the head so if you want to be treated as such then be a MAN, the provider. 2.Dont marry a woman if you cant love her when she loses her beautiful body, cos truth is She will/may lose it. So the strategy is find someone who has an inner beauty you can love forever. Dont be too blinded by the outside attractions. Also, before you marry a woman be sure to see her bad side, everyone has got a negative Side, it varies from Something very little to something mega..be sure to see it and decide whether you can live with that forever or not. dont automatically assume it will change. it probably will never change. 3.Marry a woman you can trust. This is actually very important. Most marriages break bcos of lack of trust, you need to marry someone you can trust with your love, life and Money... (The part you dont want to hear)... Yes u need to trust her with your money. If you trust your woman, the wisest thing you can do is to make her handle your money, women are naturally good with handling money and also naturally good with spending money, if she Doesnt knw how much u make, She might always think u have too much money more than you actually have and constantly be asking you for money for hair, shoes, bags etc and when you tell her you dont have money the home becomes a war zone. N she will begin to assume soo many things that you are using it to cheat on her with other girls etc..However if they handle your money, they will know how much you truly have and spend it wisely...(remember I said marry someone u trust to hold this position...if you get too blinded by love and beauty and marry someone who is not trust worthy, she wouldnt mind running away with your money and leaving you broke and hopeless!...so always be careful) 4. As for not cheating, not flirting and respecting her I assume you are matured enough to know that so wont go deep into it. 5. Bible says love ur wifey just as Christ loved the church. just as u say u love God yet sin and repent once in a while, likewise wifey is also going to hurt u once in a while. she is going to disobey u, disrespect you and annoy u sometimes but always remember u need to love her as Christ did and constantly forgive her. 6. Love her more than you love yourself. The only person you should love more than her is GOD. Put her first before your family and yourself, if you know you cant put her first above yourself and your family, dont waste her time. As for not beating the woman, I wont even bother talking about it because I assume the person reading this is a Human being and not an ANIMAL. If you reallly want to get a wifey to respect, submit and obey and recognize u as the head that God made you, then act like a HEAD that you are. Also we are your help not your maid and so if we are helping you by advising you and correcting you, put your ego aside and take it. Stop acting like you are too wise and you know it all yourself, perhaps if you were too wise and knew it all, God wouldnt have created us to help you. Scrip ref: Eph 5:25, 1 Corin 11:3, Eph 5:23, 1st Timothy 5:8, Col 3:19, Gen 2:24 Malcom Kats, Amoateng Dennis
Posted on: Wed, 20 Aug 2014 10:24:14 +0000
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