The Abc Of Parenting *Always trust your children to Allah’s care. *Bring them to the Masaajids. *Challenge them to high goals In deen. *Delight in their achievements “Masha`Allah” *Exalt Allah in their presence “Subhaan`Allah” *Frown on evil ” Astaghfirullah” *Give them love and understanding *Hear their problems, be there for them. *Ignore not their childish fears, tell them Allah is Always there. *Joyfully accept their apologies, Allah is All Forgiving. *Keep their confidence. *Live a good example before them, Islamic etiquettes. *Make them your friends. *Never ignore their endless questions! *Open your heart to their love. *Pray for them by name, …May Allah make them the coolness of your eyes. *Quicken your interest in their spirituality, Dhikrullah (remembrance of Allah) *Remember their needs, show mercy to them *Show them the way of Our Prophet Muhammad SalLalLahu Alehe WaSalLam and his companions. (Peace be upon them All).Use this as a moral guidance for their nurturing and upbringing. *Teach them to appreciate every little in life. “Alhamdulillah” *Understand they are still young and Innocent. “Fitrah” *Verify your statements, speak clearly (Repeat it 3 times) like the way Muhammad SalLalLahu Alehe WaSalLam used to. *Use diplomacy to wean them from bad company. *Encourage them to obey, Allah and their parents. * Use Deen as their beacon for success. *Praise them for the good they do and tactfully reprimand them for the wrong they engage in. * Establish Talim [Teachings of the Quran and Sunnah] in the Home * Make Mashwera [consult] with them- This will build their confidence. The Prophet (peace be upon him) said:”All of you are shepherds, and each one is responsible for his flock. A leader of people is a shepherd and responsible for them. A man is like a shepherd over his family, and he is responsible for his flock. A woman is like a shepherd over her husband’s house and children, and she is responsible for them. And a slave is a guardian of his master’s property and is responsible for it. So all of you are guardians and are responsible for your charges.” [Al-Bukhari and Muslim] Make Daily Dua for their success in this world, the grave and the life after death!
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