The Best Marriage Advice From A Godly Mother To her Daughter After Reading this story, you will be motivated. A young woman Visited her mother and told her how things were so hard for her (Here marriage is in ruins). She is so tired and don’t know what to do. it seems that after a problem has been solved, a new one arose. Her mother took her to the family kitchen and filled three pot with water and placed each on a high fire. Soon the pots came to boil. The first pot she put carrot, the second pot she put egg while the third pot she put ground coffee beans. She allow them to boil very well without altering a word. In the next twenty minutes she turns off the pot. She fished the carrots out of the pot and placed them in a bowl. she did the same with the eggs. She then added the coffee out of the pot and placed it in a bowl. “Then She asked her daughter to tell her what she see”. “Carrots, egg, and coffee,” she replied. The mother brought her closer to the carrot, asking her to feel the carrots. which She did and noticed that the carrot were soft. She then asked the daughter again to take an egg and break it. She first pulled off the shell, she observed that the egg has boiled hard. She later asked her to sip the coffee which she did smiling. These made the daughter to ask, “What does it mean, mother?” The Mother explained that each of the object has face the same diversity which is boiling water. Each of them reacted differently, The carrot went in hard, strong and unrelenting but after being boiled with water, it softened and became weak. The egg has its liquid interior being protected by its thin outer shell but after undergoing the boiling process the inside became very hard. The coffee after the boiling they had changed the water. The mother now asked the daughter, “Which are you?” “When adversity is knocking on your door, how are you going to respond? Are you a carrot, an egg or a coffee bean? Think of this: Which am I? Am I the carrot that seems to be very strong before, but with pain do i wilt and becomes soft and lose my strength? Am i egg? That became very hard after the heat. Did i have fluid spirit but after quarrel, fight, hardship, financial problem, break up and some other trial, i become hard? Does my shell look the same as before but on the heat the inside become stiffen and harden?. Or are you like the coffee that change the color of the water after the heat? If you are like the coffee, when things get worst and hard, you get better and change the situation around you. Taking advantage of every situation both good and bad. When your marriage, family is in a big mess and many of other trial, do you elevate yourself to another level? Are you a carrot, an egg or coffee? May you have enough of happiness to guide and make you sweet, enough trials to make you more strong than before, enough sorrow to keep you human as well as enough of hope to make you happy. The happiest people in the world don’t have the best time and everything, but they make the best out of every situation that surround them and come along their way.
Posted on: Wed, 26 Mar 2014 11:38:17 +0000