The biggest tragedy of All Indians is almost all educated wants to go abroad as soon as they finish there education either its engineering, commerce, science or medical. Believe me the guys who lives abroad dont even know what does it mean to have a separate state (Hyderabad) The state /Country is build on economy sending money from Abroad doesnt help in development. I request all my brothers an sister to think , can they survive if they go back to India/ Hyderabad? But I am afraid to say that all of them have a simple answer Yaro I want to but I have responsibilities for my sister, brother and than kids Have we ever thought how our parents and there parents did almost everything we do? Educating there kids Marrying there Sister Supporting there brothers for education Supporting there Parents Buying a land and than building a house All they have achieve this being in India/ Hyderabad. And believe me 75% of them were un-educated works as technical guys. Now I will say what our brothers and sisters achieved who are abroad after working for almost 10-15 years they have build a house and even the land was purchase by there parents They got married and all expenses were payed by them Some of them have supported there brothers and sisters for there education Some of them have married there sisters The most important thing they have dont after there marriage is !!! they got there Wifes along with them, some after 1 month and some after 3 months the maximum is 6 months, this is the deadline if you dont get your wife within this period either wife parents (In-laws) will stop talking with or sometimes even Wifes ... The story doesnt ends here u will leave ur old parents back in India. Saying them I am sending you enough money to get a maid If someone ask them man parents are old If you cant be here atleast let your wife be with them.. Our justification for that is we work so hard before our marriage atleast we deserve to get the morning breakfast and dinner after we come back from hard work... Fact is almost 99% will agree with me (i have exempted 1% is for those who have to send there kids to School) is we dont get Breakfast even after we get our wife and infact our life will be miserable As soon as we are back From work Madam(wife) is ready to go out as she is tired (sleeping whole day) and is getting depress as she left her family back home. You will come late after window shopping and by the time you sleep its 2am. We need to get up to go to work and when we are about to leave wife will say ( If she wake up for her sleep) Lock the door from outside When we call home at 12 noon as most of them have an 1hr lunch break, She is either sleeping or just wake up , will say Honey can you get something to eat from outside The justification from husband is Yar she is like a Prisoner who cant go out nor she have any relative or friends...( Brothers and sisters you might be thinking that the person who is writing this is in India , but the fact is I am exactly like all of you. Have good reason to justify that I have to be abroad to give a decent life to my parents( if they are alive) than kids and there education. Please accept my sincer apology for taking your valuable time but before you go I like to conclude the story... Conclusion: 1.You will never have a healthy Bank balance (Our parents also dont had) 2. You cant make parents happy with your money, all they ask is there son be with them( which we say they are emotional cous of there age) 3. After working for 25-35 years, they will be a time we needs to go back and when we do go back. we dont know what we will do? Our childrens dont have the sentimental values which our parents tought us. If you raise your voice they will say what all we have dont its our responsibility as a parents. The reason kids behave like this is they have never seen poverty and almost all of them dont have feeling for poor people 4. Most of us after working 30-35 years dont want to quit the job saying if I dont work I am not sure my kids will even feed me or cover my medical bills 5. So after working so hard what we have achieve is our parents were not happy when they died cous we couldnt get leave to visit them, and by the time we went they were on Ice cubes waiting for there son to put them in grave... Our kids dont respect us We have build a house in which we dont get a separate room to stay as I have 2 rooms and my sons with there family stays there its time to rethink , do all our sacrifices and hard work is for nothing!!!!
Posted on: Sat, 16 Nov 2013 19:27:39 +0000
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