The blaming and justification game/attitude... Truthfully? We have all or should I say may have been hurt directly, indirectly, consciously or/and unconsciously but what many are refusing to understanding, acknowledge and accept is the part that is their fault in the subject matter.... This damaging game of trying to justify why you did what or why things must be the way they are or what you believe it is correct irrespective of reality/facts/truth are all blaming and justification game that will lock one up in ignorance and will make being responsible and morally in-tune to achieve... Yes, we have recognised it and God told us that we are no longer perfect beings since the days and fall of our first mother and father Adam and Eve but he has also given unto us the power to make dignifying decisions that may not favour us now but will eventually glorify his power, his existence, his love and our purpose in life and this is to help us to be at peace with ourselves and with everyone. He did this and I did that makes godly restitution unachievable and creates a longlasting pain, hatred and bitterness for generations to come. Condemnation/Correction of our flaws must not be seen as a competition when we know that honesty and inner peace for us is what the person that is correcting us is bothered about but because many people are already biased, concluding and irrational in thinking, they will surely not see any positivity in the correction irrespective of the motives behind the correction. What makes every relationship, marriage and friendship to stand and work together achieving great things is there ability to own up when any one in the union has messed up. Continually justifying and shifting blames in a relationship/marriage creates what is called psychological, mental and emotional abuse that are often unexplainable and only the abuser will be able to understand it. I posted a video last night and it is amazing to see the number of messages I have received telling me that I am biased or supporting women or this or that, but no one sent me a message to say the video taught us how to be responsible towards one another, how to respect each others feelings, how to leave revenge to God and why we must differentiate between lust and love and between reality/truth and emotions. That video explained the causes of anger and bitterness in our women and how some inflicted themselves with pain in the name of love. It taught us that ungodly help will have dangerous repercussions and none mutual love will create bitter experience towards love. The video exposed both men and women behaving badly but as usual justification and blaming game are all many can still come out with. Trying to justify or apportion blames is not a healthy way to live, it robs us of our positive energy and gives us every reason to be bitter, callous, coward, hypocritical, selfish, angry and become self centred. Our society is suffering greatly because of this and so as our younger generation and may also affect generations to come because we are not teaching one another the joy in accepting our flaws and making necessary corrections... No man or woman is an island, we are the only specie in the world terrorising one another and we cannot live without each other so why cant we make our living more conducive and enjoyable for our own benefits? Peace......
Posted on: Thu, 06 Mar 2014 08:20:18 +0000
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