The desire for a feeling of importance is one of the chief distinguishing differences between mankind, women in particular. The deepest principle & urge in the nature of every woman is the craving to be appreciated, the desire to be important. Thou some men dont know this. Men like me. Every woman or girl likes a compliment. Here is a gnawing and unfaltering woman hunger and any rare man who honestly satisfies this heart hunger will hold them (women) in the palm of his hand. How a woman gets her feeling of importance will determine her character and that is the most significant thing about her. Some girls are so hungry for a feeling of importance that they became frustrated, gave up on love and lock up thier heart. Imagine the miracle a man can achieve by giving his woman or girl honest and sincere appreciation. Not criticism, complaint and flattery. Instead of condeming them, lets try to understand them. Lets try and figure out why they do what they did. Thats a lot more profitable and intriguing than criticism; and it breeds sympathy, tolerance and kindness. God Himself does not propose to judge man until the end of his days. There is only one thing under high heaven that will get a girl do anything for you and that is appreciation. There is nothing else that so kills the love and ambitions of a woman as criticisms and ungratefulness. Especialy from the man she loves. The greatest asset a man must possess and the best way to develop the best in a girl is appreciation and encouragement. Giving her incentive to work. He should be anxious to praise but loath to find fault, hearty in his approbation and lavish in his praise. But what do some guys do? The exact opposite! If they dont like a thing, they bawl out at thier girl. Forgeting that she is the weaker vessel. There is nothing else a girl need so much than nourishment for her self -esteem some guys nourish the bodies of thier girls, but how seldom do they nourish thier self-esteem? They provide them with roast beef and potatoes to build energy, but neglect to give them kind words of appreciation that would sing in thier memories for years like the music of the morning stars. According to my investigations, some girls are so hungry, so thirsty for appreciation that they will swallow anything, just as a starving man will eat grass and fishworms. One of the most neglected virtues of our daily existence is appreciation. Try leaving a friendly trail of little sparks of gratitude on your spouse. You will be surprised how she will set flames of love and friendship that will burn forever for you. Honest appreciation got results where criticism and redicule failed. Hurting people not only changes them, it is not called for. Lets give honest, sincere appreciation. Men be hearty in your approbation and lavish in your praise on your women. She will never forget you in her entire life. She will cherish your words and treasure them and repeat them over a lifetime- repeat them years after you have left her.
Posted on: Sat, 30 Nov 2013 22:29:44 +0000
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