“The following are feelings and beliefs that cultivate and encourage dysfunction, co-dependency and/or addictions. Keep in mind that these characteristics are the natural by-product of a person’s early conditioning. It just “IS”. Therefore, there is no judgment, no blame—just awareness...and compassion. 1. Judges self harshly. 2. Fears criticism and judgment, but driven to be critical and judgmental of others. 3. Feels a sense of urgency; impulsive; impatient; compelled to seek immediate rather than delayed gratification. 4. Fears failure but unconsciously sabotages own success. 5. Fears disapproval and rejection, so unknowingly creates characteristics acceptable to others. 6. Fears commitment. 7. Feels inadequate/low self-esteem. Sometimes has to compensate by appearing superior. 8. Fears discovery of real self will cause rejection. 9. Fears intimacy. Unable to form close, loving, intimate relationships. 10. Fears loving and being loved. 11. Fears dependency on anyone or anything, yet are dependent personalities. 12. Fears abandonment but compelled to become involved with compulsive personalities that play out this fear. 13. Frightened of angry people. 14. Afraid to trust due to lack of trust in self. 15. Afraid to reveal inner secrets for fear of rejection or disapproval. 16. Afraid of[…]” Excerpt From: Karol K. Truman. “Feelings Buried Alive Never Die...” iBooks. This material may be protected by copyright.
Posted on: Mon, 08 Sep 2014 09:33:48 +0000
Trending Topics
Recently Viewed Topics
© 2015