The following post is a repost requested from a dear friend. For Husbands and Dads Eyes Make The “Eye Bounce” An Unconditional Habit Ogling, staring, eyeballing, and second looks are disrespectful to yourselves, your mother, and especially your wife. I cannot eliminate myself from a never ending list of men who have, without conscience, taken long and second looks at women, no matter the place, and with no regard for our wives presence. Regardless, while walking in full stride, or driving our ride, and standing in line, we have been there. All the while lusting, yearning, lurking, and prowling with no control over our hearts and eyes. Many men may say, “soooo what.” But these long looks do not go unnoticed by those who love us. More specific they are our wives, our brides, the love of our lives, and the mothers, of our children. It is wrong and discredits our wives. When your spouse confronts you it is because they are offended. You have no right to bark back. You surely cannot accuse them of jealousy. Instead, your misconduct warrants a plea from you while seeking her forgiveness in order for you to deliver a sincere apology. When done, your intentions must be laced with an urgency to fix your woeful self by ceasing this conduct, and turning your heart back to your wife. Dads, you must remember, your sons have been watching you too, most often when their mothers were not present. Perhaps they have heard you say things in a vulgar and lascivious tone about women. That along with allowing your eyes to grope other women, outside of your marriage becomes a lesson in life for him. Your conduct is disrespectful to his mother, your wife. And for him, he is learning how to disrespect his mother, and eventually his wife. A free lesson follows. A SIMPLE LESSSON: Practice the “EYE BOUNCE.” The eye bounce entitles you to the first look. Make sure it is a quick and not a lingering look. Bounce your eyes off and/or down. When we practice this eye bounce while denying ourselves the second look, our wives will surely notice and feel #1 again, and at all times. The test to the EYE BOUNCE is this; Men, you must make the eye bounce an unrelenting habit, a manly, and mature dimension of yourselves. Practice this each day, and at all times even when your wife is not present.
Posted on: Thu, 12 Sep 2013 10:28:49 +0000