The fundamental thing every woman should do before getting married to a man is find out the reason why a man wants to get married to you. Even if you have dated him for years, when it comes to marriage, different men have different reasons for getting married. Some marry because their family pressurize them, perhaps ONLY SON issue, some because they need a woman to share ideas, talk love, have romance and affection and feel complete as a man, many argue that they are too busy to chase after gals on the street and avoid risks of STDs and unwanted pregnancy that may lead to unprecedented marriages to wrong persons they never loved or liked in the first place (after all body no be wood). A lot marry because they are so much committed to jobs and other assignments that they need a helper to keep the home tidy behind, prepare meals and feed the family while they are at the front there hatching money. The rest may marry because they feel age is no longer on their side and money is not coming forth so they need someone to pull resources together and stand better a ground. The kind of satisfaction each derives from his marriage differ. Imagine if a man marries a woman to help keep the home in order behind while he is there at the front for business and the woman suddenly grow busy that both are now soldiers at the war front, come home later than the husband and keep the young man hungry at night..what do you expect? More still, if a man marries because he is the ONLY SON and years come by without the woman giving him an issue?......Think about it. Think if a man marries because he feel tired of chasing women in the street and telling lies, always afraid of contacting STDs and the wife suddenly happens to be a dunce at bed or nags over love making that he begins to think of having a date outside his marriage ? A man who sees a woman as hardworking and decised to marry her to helppull resources together and stand a better ground and suddenly the wife came in and turn to a house wife..... Survival ????? In a nut shell.... The cases are much complicated and I cannot help out here? Perhaps you do!!!
Posted on: Thu, 13 Mar 2014 11:40:12 +0000