The other night I saw this girl I knew at a club and we were smiling at each other while dancing from afar. She waved and I waved. She jumped up onto the perimeter of the dance floor (the perimeter was like a really thick wall almost) and danced while looking at me. When we heard some lyrics that went something along the lines of youre looking fine tonight, or something like that, we both pointed to each other while dancing and laughing. When the song switched and she came down to the main part of the dance floor, I asked her if she wanted to dance. Before I knew it her rockin body was rubbed against mine and I just went with it. About halfway through the song she turned her head toward me. I went for a kiss, and we ended up kissing for about 7-10 seconds. While we were kissing I moved my right hand from her side to her breast. After we kissed I asked her if what I did was okay, and she have me the so-so sign. I took that as a Lets just keep doing what we were doing before. I apologized for crossing her boundaries and she said Its fine, I just havent ever done this before. When the song was over I said I had fun and reassured her that I wouldnt ever intentionally make her uncomfortable. She seemed content with what I said because she said No its fine, I just have to have limits, Im not used to this (grinding). I said Okay, great. Ill see you around, then! I waved goodbye and we returned to our friend groups. Do you think I should add her on Facebook? Do you think she really was uncomfortable when the making out/hands over breasts thing started? How should I approach/talk to her next? Any other thoughts?
Posted on: Tue, 29 Oct 2013 03:46:24 +0000
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