The spirit of Jezebel needs to go back to hell where it came from!! *A Jezebel Spirit.... - Believes to be right. Wants to win. Will argue till you drop. - Has a blame/guilt mindset: Everything comes down to who is right and who is wrong. - Is unwilling to compromise on priorities: Everything has to go the way they have planned it. - Is strongly defensive when approached for criticism and correction, even guidance. Will retaliate by spreading rumors and lies and try to discredit and destroy the reputation of those who confront them for their wrongdoings. - Rejects good-willed help or empathy because of pride: “Don’t feel sorry for me. I can take care of myself.” - Self-rejects: “You hate me”, “I am not good enough for you”, “What do you want with a fat cow like me?”, “Why don’t you marry somebody else?” - Feels unappreciated: Is constantly fishing for approval, confirmation, understanding, and more interest in them. “You never …. anymore!” - Uses attention seeking crocodile tears: “You don’t love me”, “Just leave me alone.” - Is unable to receive: Is too proud to receive love and things from God. Feels humiliated in receiving, but likes to give gifts to others to boost their own self-esteem, as if saying: “I can afford expensive gifts”, or “Look what I am able to do with the success I have worked so hard for.” Doesn’t believe when they are told that they are loved. Has “It’s never enough”-mentality. - Has own agenda: Forces their own life-vision and personal dreams of achievement onto the marriage without regards to the spouse. - Distorts communication: Twists and turns matters into the obscure, and refuses to “kiss and make up,” leaving issues in an ongoing dispute. - Uses control in relationships and ex-relationships: Doesn’t give closure to ex. Leaves matters unsettled. Uses children against spouse or ex. Holds back ex’s personal items, refusing to give them back. Ignores, or uses the “silent treatment” to instill guilt. Claims to be perfect and without fault – nothing to regret or repent from. - Holds on to old experiences and people from the past. Insists on bringing family members and family traditions into the marriage. - Justifies everything: Always has an excuse for their activities. Doesn’t ask other peoples opinions. Doesn’t seek Godly wisdom or exercise self-control. Talks too much. Is inappropriate. Is always busy persuading people and spouse of their standpoint and their good intentions and how wonderful they are. Accuses others of doing what they themselves are doing. Gets easily offended and has a “How dare you speak to me” –attitude. - Thrives in rebellion and disobedience: Always does “extra” – cannot do with the simple. Doesn’t take advice, but is headstrong on their own ideas. Doesn’t take correction, but continues justifying their cause. Doesn’t heed to the authority they are under, whether God Himself, spouse, pastor, parent, or other but always chooses to be defiant and rebellious against it. Doesn’t like to admit fault or failure because their entire identity is built on “never failing.” Resists every flow of peace and order. - Doesn’t have peace. Causes problems instead of avoiding problems. Is confrontational. Is conflict-oriented. Is moody and unpredictable. Often has compulsive control disorders. Is negative and disapproving. Spreads confusion and misunderstandings. Cause division and isolation.
Posted on: Wed, 05 Mar 2014 03:38:35 +0000
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