The worst thing in life is helplessness. And the worst phase in life is being helpless. People become judgemental, tag you, taunt you. You want to scream and say “ hold it, I can explain.” But none are ready to, and you are silent because you are worried about losing support. Its like you are crubbed into a tiny box and are again expected not to gasp. You turn around for some understanding look, some “ its ok” touch. But all you get is a judgemental sermon. As Hitler rightly says. “ Never be a failure. If you fail, never be alive to explain your failure.” How can failure be measured materially ? how can we so unceremoniously tag someone based on failure that they have not worked hard. Why universalise everyone? As a matter of fact, who works to fail ? leave aside the world, at least the family, the near and dear ones should cease to be judgemental. What goes on a person who is helpless and failed cannot be perceived. Everyone appreciates when a person succeeds, what is important , necessitated, and primarily matters is whether you are having the same confidence on your loved one even when the person fails. Nothing is permanent, neither failure nor success. What actually matters is attitude. Please please stand by your people when they need you the most. That is what seperates you from the world.
Posted on: Wed, 08 Oct 2014 06:28:11 +0000