There are two types of misconception to advice.. One is the Needed Comfort type.. & thats when youve deep down already made up your mind, but theres a little voice in your head demanding comfort to the decision made. So when you look & ask for an advice, you Only demand it from those wholl support that deep down already-made-decision. Its not necessarily the right decision, but it is a nonnegotiable one to you. So it really is, more of a Confirmation rather than an Advice. The second type is the Clear-Conscious type, & its when your mind is telling you i dont know what to do, and that is a situation when you know EXACTLY what to do !! But you also know that its too hard. And the only reason you r looking for an advice is because you want a way out, so you need to find that person (& its not necessarily someone you trust) wholl tell you its fine NOT to do the right thing. And this really is, more of a Way Out than an Advice. When you look for an Advice, you need to make sure you are willing to hear everyone, willing to listen & consider every side to every opinion. When you stop doing that, it becomes a mis-concept to advice.
Posted on: Sun, 16 Mar 2014 13:49:19 +0000
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