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There’s a big difference between working through problems with a person and holding on to a person. Let’s stop mistaking being comfortable with being in love. You don’t want to leave your boyfriend because you’re used to them being there. The fighting has become normal. The conversation is easy. Even if he’s not paying you any attention, you know how to act out like a drama queen and get his focus back for at least a few days. Your relationship is messy and predictable, but predictable is safe. Weak girls would rather be unhappy and comfortable than happy and uncertain. New men come with new problems, new judgments, and there is no history keeping them from jerking you in favor of the next chick. Your boyfriend may have issues but you understand his moods and are certain that he’ll never abandon you because you’ve been through so much. He’s holding on, you’re holding on, and together you two are going to live out this weak love affair until you reach the breaking point. That’s not true love, that’s truly pathetic. If you two really loved each other you’d be trying to make it work, not arguing over the same problems every month because no one wants to resolve them. Honestly, most of these problems can’t be resolved, which is why a lot of you have broken up and gotten back with the same man so much. You’re in love with being safe. Men understand what’s going on. Why do guys roll the dice and go after new girls when they could lose everything they’ve built with the best they can have? It’s not a gamble, fail or succeed, weak girls will keep holding on to a bad relationship because they look at change like a 10 year old looks at a trip to the dentist. Are you going to work through why he cheated? Nope. You’ll break up and then run back once you get that text message, “missing my baby.” Go ahead and tell all your friends how you’re working through your problems, but I know what that really means: We don’t talk about what happened and he can no longer have a Facebook. Nothing has changed and nothing ever will.
Posted on: Thu, 30 Jan 2014 17:30:07 +0000

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