....They have allowed you to throw your stuff onto them and have them play it back to you. They are some of your greatest teachers of all, but there comes a point where you should not cast yourself on others. So when I say it’s other people – the loved ones, the ones closest to you – it’s actually you doing it to them, you putting your stuff onto them so they can play it back. They push your buttons, because you gave them your buttons to push. They cause you the most heartache, because you gave them your heart to play back to you. It’s not that they’re bad people. Actually, they’re wonderful people and they love you, and they have put up with a lot, just as you put up with a lot from them. BUT!!!! this whole practice of using other people to discover self needs to COME TO AN END. So as we are in this discussion of expectations, I’m going to call this castpectations. Because they are also your cast, like a cast of characters in a play or a television show. They’re your cast. They’re your characters. But there comes a time when it becomes a one-woman or a one-man show. You’re on your own. It’s your stage. No longer using others. It’s you standing on your own, in the I Am Presence of yourself. When you get to that point, when you can be truthful about it, when it’s just the I Am on the stage, not this cast of other humans that you’ve surrounded yourself with, then you’ll realize something beautiful: That there is the cast of yourself and all the magnificent aspects that you’ve ever had, all the very integrated aspects and that you actually don’t need the others. You don’t need them in the way you’ve been using them in the past. So here’s the dilemma: You’re with somebody, you have children, you have a mate, even parents, and there’s this whole game that’s been being played – you discovering yourself through them – and it has to COME TO AN END, at a certain level of enlightenment or awareness. adamus
Posted on: Thu, 18 Dec 2014 09:31:39 +0000
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