This is my free advice to people in relationships, yes even marriages. You are 100 % person. God Made you complete. Compromise in a relationship does not mean you reducing yourself to 80 % so that someone fills you up or becomes 120 %. It means re arranging two 100 %s for a better fit. It is ok to Augment each others Strengths but Never let someones Weaknesses control your life, your plan, your joy, your finances. No. Usikufe na starehe sio yako. If your husband is cheating on you, It is his pleasure and hers, do not let it kill you with stress and disease. If he is a drunkard and does not know he has a home to go to his family, please that is his pleasure, do not let it stress you to death If he is a comfortable man whose ambition is very limited and has no dreams beyond his monthly bills, please do your part and let him live in comfort through his. Dont my sisters. My former mother in law always told me atonga ma yot ema iyombo go koth the lightest basket is what is carried when the rains are coming. Do not burden your spirit and your soul over things that were not in the priority 100%. Let it Go. Let Him Go. Put down that burden, It does not belong to you. Iko na mwenyewe. Kila mtu achukue mzigo wake please Your friend who has been through it all round One. Mama Mona Na Nelly
Posted on: Sun, 05 Oct 2014 10:02:03 +0000