This is my perspective on being in love versus love. Yes being in love exists but what does not exist is that it will last forever. See, being in love is a phase but love is constant its steady as a rock. Know those feelings of meeting someone they are all you can think about? When they touch you its like electrical currents back and forth? That is the newness and the first stage of love when you meet a potential. Too many people make the mistake of thinking that it will stay like that but it evolves. Ask any newlywed they cant keep their hands off each other they think the other is so perfect they think no one else can feel as they do. Once conflicts begin to arise because conflicts must arise two different people who grew up differently exposed to life differently must clash and also the inherent differences between men and women there must be conflict. Then the bills and the babies start to arrive where being in love used to be effortless now it takes effort to create those romantic moments. Love is constant and God is love. Thats why I like to tell people to build a good friendship with whoever they plan to marry because at the end of the day its the friendship and genuine respect and liking of each other that will sustain the relationship not that inlove feeling. If you allow yourself to fall in love with God then you can keep that inlove feeling with no expiration. Gods love is so deep that it fills every void in you that man cannot fill. We all have insecurities if you get married thinking your spouse will complete you, you are in for a rude awakening. There is nothing you can do to fill every void in your spouse only God can. Thats why you should keep God in the center of the marriage so He can show you how to love each other and please Him in the process. God loves you and so do I! ❤️❤️❤️😊😉 He who does not love does not know God, for God is love. (I John 4:8 NKJV)
Posted on: Tue, 05 Aug 2014 18:04:01 +0000
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