This isnt directed at anyone in particular but its something Ive come across a few times here and there in the past year or so, since Ive started being more social. I actually do have a lot of friends, and that can sometimes be a major annoyance. I like to hang out with a lot of people. I love going to concerts and bringing a bunch of people with me to hang out with. But since I cross into so many different friend circles, when I invite different people to the same event, and then I get people that say oh well if ____ is going Im not, cant stand him/her or oh ____ is my ex, I dont want to be around him/her. Understandable but sometime people get mad at me when I dont realize these things. Im sorry that I dont make it a priority to memorize whom all of your exes and enemies are. The thing that bothers me the most is when I get people that say dont invite ____ I dont want him/her to spoil our fun NO! Im not gonna exclude one friend just because another has a problem. I love all of my friends equally. Dont get mad at me over crap like that. And dont get mad at me when I choose to hang out with these people. Any beef you have with them is your business, not mine, and if I have no problem with somebody then I should have every right to hang out with them without being badgered by my other friends. Same goes for exes, dont be mad at me, particularly guys, if Im hanging out with your ex. First off, once you end a relationship with someone, that person stops being your problem. You cannot dictate whom their next boyfriend/girlfriend is gonna be. BUT, Im not a white knight either. Im not out to grab your ex. Just because you two break up does not mean I have to automatically sever a good friendship, regardless of whether I knew her before you two were dating or not. To me she is not my friends ex, she is my friend. Whom I choose to be friends with, and whom your exes or your enemies choose to be friends or even more with is not your business. If you lose respect for me over that, then thats your problem. Im not saying this to be rude, Im not gonna think ill of you over any problems you have with someone. That is not my business. Im not conspiring against you by being friends with someone you dont like. I just happen to enjoy hanging out with a variety of people, and I dont have time to keep track of whom I shouldnt invite to the same event. If you have a problem with someone and you dont want to be around them, just let me know you wont be going. Or, if its like a concert or something, just come have a good time and ignore the other person. In a crowd of a few hundred people there are plenty of other people you can be talking to (Y) again, not saying any of this to be rude. Just trying to defend myself in stupid situations.
Posted on: Wed, 13 Aug 2014 22:47:29 +0000
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