Throughout life, we never seems to stop trying to conquer love. Love must be one, love should not be two, love a maximum of four, and so on. If love mathematically, at what number it fit and in what numbers he bablas? And we do not break up formulate love, though it may be the love that define us all. Embrace the infinite finite. Live in pairs she said according to nature, such as crocodiles that live monogamous but ironically even become an icon infidelity. But sometimes we see a male caring for the many females as well, such as the circus parade. And it was there in nature. Then where humans should reflect? As all split into two poles of this duality in nature, terpecahlah those who believe in love multiple certainly sick and treacherous to those who believe love can be shared over the wise and virtuous. That the public law and conscience to speak, that one speak of religious law and the life story of a great man. Which one carries the commission anti-this, that a reward trophies polygamy. Is a challenge each of us to pursue a balance between intuition rope individual and social consensus. It is difficult for us to determine the basic balance of the sponsoring all our considerations: whether its a matter of right and wrong, or actually fits and does not fit? If the affairs of the first, we are forever stuck in sophist because everyone will feel the most correct. When it came second, the problem would be quickly completed. Suitability I does not mean your suitability, and vice versa. But as we observe and experience, more often we choose the first one to rotate in the unresolved debate. Last night, I received a bulk sms on behalf of the entire Indonesian mothers who expressed disappointment at a polygamist leader. On the same night, my friend called and we talked about the concept of poliamori (a love affair more than one). As a result, I was led to reflect on several things at once. First, we know the extent of the persona is just we have only persona. Persona is the information layer most fragile, most superficial introduction, and therefore most rapidly destroyed. People we do not know the easiest to be justified rather than the people we know close. Second, whether monogamy-polygamy and monoamori-poliamori are strict barriers menentangkan conscience versus ego and loyal versus crocodile? Could it be that the real dichotomy liquid process that constantly change according to the stages of a person lived, rather than the raw characteristics to be selected or stigmatized once in a lifetime? Its not easy to be a person who is claimed as belonging to the people persona much. Persona as secabik tissue easily banished, replaced by other new tissue that is considered better and correct. Many of us dream and struggle desperately to secabik ourselves that many people. Life is passing so fun and profitable, despite the consequences rope bridge which we live is getting thinner. Science balance we must continue to be deepened. The rope must be lived to be extra careful. Not easily also be someone who is very firm hold on the persona of others, to those who are considered leaders, role models, role model. Celebrity status could exist because the mass fabricated persona through the media and selebaran his encounter us, and we picked. We collect them as collector flyers persona. Sometimes we forget, recognition and understanding we are only limited ads listed. Therefore justification that we do often like to split water with stones; temporary and useless. Do not feel the effect of our life, not even for life is concerned. We were disappointed perhaps not because of love has been two-timed. No mans love. Abdiabdi is our love, flowing in a stream. It is our perception that has been two-timed. Then we feel pain, we feel betrayed. But just see what we hold in earnest this time. Should we join shout if we had just selebarannya course, not the goods? Perhaps this is the right moment to evaluate various leaflets that we have collected and we believe desperately. How often we drift in disappointment, but it is our perception that let down. How often we blame others, we ourselves helplessness when we want to blame. Whatever our perception of love, there is no harm in getting to the ever-changing. If life is a liquid, the container is just the way we are to understand the incomprehensible. Many ways to accommodate the water, trying to embrace the infinite finite, but the container is not everything. Lessons dikandungnyalah infinite and no mans land forever, that one moment and melt away the strip-strip leaflet which we worship. Ready not ready, willing not willing. THIS IS LOVE THE NO MAN
Posted on: Sun, 04 Jan 2015 04:50:29 +0000