To ma lovely married pals..cool advice From Mirza Yawar Baig Mahmoud JajahSalim Muhammed Sani Salim M. Sani Fuse MahamaMariam LionessofIslam Elias Yakubu Natogmah AbukariFatima Zaara Dan Sabo Abam SemiraNii Odoi YemohAdada Mohammed Abdul-Rahim Bature etc It is necessary to spend time with your spouse, not with your other friends in some club. It is necessary to develop common interests. It is necessary to take pleasure in each others work and activity. It is necessary to support each other in all that is good. It is necessary to ensure that you give feedback with care and concern and never in public. It is essential to remember that between spouses there are no defenses because there is trust. And for that reason it is essential for the spouses to exercise special care in dealing with each others emotions. It is necessary to build a language together, a language of looks, words, signs. A language that over time becomes almost magical in how it enables one spouse to know what the other is feeling without explanation. A language which is a joy to see when you look at those who have been happily married for many years. It is necessary to consciously remember the good that one spouse does for the other, especially when they are having a bad day and are acting strange. This is the love that Allah talks about when He says that He has put it between the spouses. Like all potential wealth, it has to be accessed or it will remain buried under the sand. (End quote) May Allaah put mawadda and Rahma in yours and all Nikaahs..till Jannah
Posted on: Wed, 24 Sep 2014 13:16:58 +0000
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