To my mothers side of the family: SOME of you seem to want to point the finger about some of the negative experiences you all have been having where you all are at the present time and the finger is being pointed at my mother and her children. Now, I have heard the stories and for a while I resented my mother for keeping us away from our family and she had her reasons and this was one of them. Everything that went wrong she seemed to get blamed for it...it was her fault. Well, Im speaking up on her behalf. I know that there has been some rough times going on in the family and tbh, I briefly know whats going on and I feel that anyone who is grown makes their own decisions in life and anyone who is grown should know better than to play the blame game and accept responsibility for THEIR ACTIONS. Now, my mother has told me many of the stories of how she was the black sheep of the family and everything that went wrong..she was blamed for it. Now, her kids are being blamed for some of the actions of the kids in this family?! Really? How is that when we dont even come around?? Plus, last I checked I was doing well for myself and if any of you (the ones blaming) were around me..you would be in a better position in life if I was to influence you to do anything! There is only so much you can take and it took my mother over 40 years to get over some of the abuse that came from this side of the family and you wonder why she dont come around?? She missed her dads funeral because of the mess that she was put through in this family. Im telling yall, please fall back off of my mom and her family because the truth is you all are responsible for yall misery....we have nothing to do with it. I do wish you all well and Im not going to go into detail about what happened but I will say...my brothers were not the cause of the decisions that one has made to put himself in the position he is in right now. I do wish him the best and know that trouble dont last forever. Learn how to pray, go to church and seek God and stop blaming my mother and her off spring for yall problems. Its not going to work. Its a reason we dont come around. Sometimes loving family from a distance is the way to go. Now, this message was my nice version. Please leave my mother and her children out of yall problems. Thank you : )
Posted on: Mon, 28 Oct 2013 19:12:28 +0000
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