To present in the land of bd/sm means to offer yourself up. It is - TopicsExpress

To present in the land of bd/sm means to offer yourself up. It is one of the most vulnerable positions you can assume. Its head down, chest to the floor, ass up in the air and the rest of you wide open. It is a physical offering of your body to your dominant. It requires tremendous trust. Its like saying take me, use me as you will for your pleasure. I am yours completely to do with what you want as I honor you that way. It is the total giving up of resistance. When he first used these words with me, I was stunned. It was like the first time he asked me to call him Sir. Present? I knew what he wanted. And so, I did. And in that moment of the deepest surrender, what was really happening for me, was that I was presenting to him my heart. Pamela Madsen #SurrenderGamesBookExcerpt #TheStruggle