Today is July 19, 2014. 17 years ago at this time, I had just married a guy that Id known for years. Lawd knows we got on each others nerves so bad. But that changed when he went into the military, moved to Japan and we kept in close touch via tons of letters. Love grew! We married expecting to live happily ever after. Yall know this guy. Its my Chad Wydner. We went through many life experiences together: marriage, culinary school, pets that were our stepping stone to children, many moves, home ownership, infertility, TWINS, managing finances, etc etc. That list is lengthy. I feel as if I should make things clear. Through thick and thin, Chad was THE best husband and father. There is no taking that away from him. I made mistakes. Especially lately that Im sure he could look into my eyes and say....I told you so. And as much as it would kill me.....Id have to smile and say Yes, you did and daggone you were right. Chad will always be near and dear to me. Hes the father of my hearts and saw me through the first half of my life. We took great care of one another. And were good enough people to continue to do that, no matter who our next partner may be. Despite divorce, this day will be one I remember forever. We lived a great first half of our lives together. But our paths have split. I wish him nothing but happiness and there is no doubt he feels the same way about me. No regrets. We left one another realizing that love would come again to us. But you know what? We both deserve it. Because honestly. Dont we all? On that note, good night and sweet dreams. Last but not least. Tell that person that lays down beside you tonight how much you love them. Because you never know when that moment will be gone. ❤️
Posted on: Sun, 20 Jul 2014 02:24:45 +0000