Todays Devotional 1. When communication is reduced or stopped Both in courtship and marriage, it is not always a good sign when the communication reduces or is stopped. You have to consciously work at it. Even when you have some quarrel, or there is a disagreement, you need to know that you are still married or you are still going to get married. Remember this, when you lose communication between each other, assumptions will become the order of the day. Assumptions are the lowest forms of knowledge because they are mostly untrue and exaggerated. A relationship or marriage that feeds from assumption will soon crack. Communicate deliberately. Never say you are too busy. Life is all about value. If you value that relationship or marriage, you will find time and invest communication in it. Someone was once asked what the three most important ingredients of marriage are. He said the first is communication, the second is communication and the third is communication. I agree with him. 2. When friendship is not pursued In courtship or marriage, when friendship is not pursued, it will not really last. Friends may disagree but they always settle. Real friends will not kill each other. Real friends watch out for each other’s back. Real friends will forgive each other easily. So I tell people, marry your friend, and you would have minimized conflicts, hate and bickering. There is a difference between marrying a friend and marrying your acquaintance...Read Further on HOW TO PREVENT CRACK POINTS IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP,MARRIAGE AND LIFE - kissesandhuggs.org/devotionals/how-to-prevent-crack-points-in-your-relationships-and-marriage To get Links of Morning Devotional & Night Prayers in your E-mail, Register on KHC and join 12,000 others - goo.gl/HcTxsL
Posted on: Thu, 16 Oct 2014 05:53:25 +0000