Top 10 Fun Tips To Kill Broken Heart 1. DONT FALL APART. Instead, take a deep breath. Smile, even though faintly and calmly say, Im sorry you feel this way. I was hoping our relationship would be a long- term one. But I respect you too much to try to force you to love me. I hope we can remain friends, but the most important thing is to allow God to lead us. 2. DONT DO SOMETHING FOOLISH. A break up is not the end of the world, regardless of your pain. The feelings of rejection are temporary. Dont do something impulsively that may alter your life significantly. 3. DONT TURN BITTER AND TRY TO GET BACK AT THE PERSON WHO HAS REJECTED YOU WITH, what i call PSYCHOLOGICAL MURDER. 4.DONT BEG. 5. DONT ISOLATE YOURSELF AFTER A BREAKUP. 6. DONT BE ASHAMED TO GRIEVE OVER YOU LOSS. 7. DONT JUMP IMMEDIATELY INTO ANOTHER RELATIONSHIP. You need time to heal. The more serious your relationship. the more time youll need. You may be very vulnerable during this period. Because you are used to being close to another person, you now may crave loneliness. 8. DONT PUNISH YOURSELF. Rejection causes feelings of self- doubt and sometimes self-hate. dont fall into the trap of equating your value to whether or not you can hold a relationship together. Accept Gods value of you. 9. TREAT THE OTHER PERSON KINDLY. There is good counsel in the proverb that says, If your enemy is hungry, give him food! If he is thirsty give him something to drink! This will make him feel ashamed of himself and God will reward you (Proverbs 25:21-22, The Living Bible). 10. DONT GIVE UP ON GOD. Now is the time to lean on Him. Let His Spirit talk to you and minister to your needs. By now yo may be thinking, I could never react with such understanding. Thats because most of us allow our feelings to dictate our actions. #TJAY#
Posted on: Sat, 22 Mar 2014 15:41:12 +0000
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