Troy Murray, I wasn’t going to respond to ANY of your numerous posts that have managed to flood my newsfeed, but tonight I decided to say something. I know MOST PEOPLE are just reading your posts for their “entertainment fix” for the day, and I’ll admit, I’ve read through a few of them and was shocked – then again, not shocked; because if MOST OF US look back in our past or just open up our closet doors we’d see skeletons too! But more importantly, what I felt for you was sadness and compelled to reach out to you – sad that you have felt that you’re only way to “avenge your hurt” is to publicize it to the death – whether death of your reputation or death of a marriage. I don’t know you – but I KNOW YOU. What do I mean? I mean that I know “YOU” as in ANY of us who has been hurt before by a man; I know “you” when you want to get even and destroy the one who you felt destroyed you. I know “you” who has allowed hate to fester in a small part of your heart that has now spread where you have grown wax cold and is now empty of feeling, no longer able to pump the love, joys and even sorrows it used to because it’s now – dead. To know “you” is to know me and so many countless other women – we’ve been there, and perhaps some have not, but to most – just live a little longer, you’ll know the feeling. But here’s where we have the choice to be BETTER – do we “avenge our hurt” or “encourage the healing”. I’m not taking a position, because it’s not my place, but generically speaking as a woman there are some things we know better – one of them is having a relationship whether emotional or physical with a married man. You’ll always have the losing hand because you’re fighting against something that God himself put together that NO MAN (or woman) should tear apart. Doesn’t matter if he was the initiator, what’s important and continues to be your response. I felt sad not only reading your posts, but I felt sad for a marriage, I felt sorry for a man who has lost his way, and I felt sorry for two women – yes, I felt sorry for you too! What also made me even more sad for you was that you obviously don’t have GOOD FRIENDS and I stress “good friends” who would tell you to “STOP” immediately – (SURRENDER your right to get revenge; TAKE the time to cry and grieve a loss; OBSERVE your role in this tragedy and PEACE you can only find through God himself who is the healer of all hearts and the avenger of all wrongdoing. ) Now of course you can curse me out, as I see you have no problem doing to anyone who has something to say contrary to what YOU BELIEVE is your right to express yourself, I can take it, and your response was never the focus – I had a message. We even get “hell has no fury like a woman scorned”…. But you want to know the REAL WAY TO GET EVEN – move on and be happy! Yes, that’s it right there – might not make sense today, but if you practice it every day starting now, I PROMISE YOU your hurt will go away – your heart will get lighter and even love again and you’ll be – HAPPY!! Be well.
Posted on: Sun, 25 Aug 2013 01:35:59 +0000
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