Use chopping gestures to back up the power of forced, black-or-white, my-way-or-the-highway choices, and create a sense of “necessity”; use slow, sweeping gestures to create a sense that there is a range of options, and to reinforce a feeling of openness, creativity, and possibility. Making good feelings spread is the key to making good ideas spread. Speed of Motion. Like vocal volume, the speed of your gestures is best kept within a narrow range; vary your speed, but not to a great extent. Motion can easily be too fast or too slow. Generally, slow motion is more engaging than fast motion. Fast motion tends to be jarring, whereas slow motion tends to draw and hold attention, accumulating interest and power. Physical Contact. Physical contact strongly increases emotional response. As with eye contact, it can easily be overwhelming or threatening, but slight to moderate physical contact usually increases positive emotional response. The complete absence of physical contact tends to sharply reduce emotional impact. To make a woman feel good, invite her to touch something in the environment, or even your finger, and then notice how good that feeling can be, when she really lets herself feel it. Just as you can induce an intense state in your listener by describing a third party’s experience of that state, you can tell your listener something without seeming to be the person saying it. Click “Share” if you want others to read this. Learn Secrets Here: MindReality/facebookgift.html
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