WAHEGURU JI KA KHALSA WAHEGURU JI KI FATEH We need to learn and teach our children the meaning of Maanas kee Jaat sabhai eke pehchanbo. Aval aleh noor opaya kudrat ke sabh bande.. Sabh meh Jot Jot hai soe, tisdai chaanan sabh meh chaanan hoe We can consider others good but need to know their attention too. What they think of us, what their opinions are, what their religion allows them, what type of their company is, what sort of behaviour and opinion others have about us. Is the person trying to go beyond what your family or religion teaching you? Is the person giving you gifts beyond his/her capicity? Is the person asks you to keep secrets etc there are many things to consider. Easy to remember dont hate others, serve equally but dont get too friendly. Personally stay away. Be safe. Its must to teach our children, how to save themselves from others. We also need to teach our children from young age to recognise the healthy caring touch and bad attentional touch. Some family members can be abusive too. Always leave your child with a trustworthy relative, friend and carer. Always check your childs behaviour, never ignore your childs response or opinion about others including teachers, relatives, friends and anyone else they get associate with. Always get some time to talk to your child about his/her day/night/time and listen. Dont abrupt, let the child speak, it may be hard for a child to find appropriate words to tell you about something but dont feed words in their mouth when the child is telling you. Child can draw, can explain with the use of appropriate word at that stage. NB: you can tell the appropriate word later on. Check if child wants to avoid meeting or staying with someone! Ask the reason instead of forcing to meet or stay with. Dont over or under estimate. We need to go deep to know the reason for the childs opinion and response about someone. If children are playing especially with friends, then carry on checking on them without them knowing that you are keeping an eye. We usually consider that its healthy to stay over night in friends house.. AVOID it. Usually children dont lie but still be careful, child can be wrongly accusing someone. In simple words teach children to be safe and share their feeling with you. As the children are growing so our teaching, caring techniques need to grow too. NB: we have to give a happy environment to let children grow, DONt be over protective. Dont worry but be careful. May Waheguru bless us all.
Posted on: Tue, 04 Nov 2014 13:46:02 +0000
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