#WARNING #ReadersDiscretionIsAdvised Its Y2K15...and many may have started with new year resolutions again,,,one thing u should realize is that..its not about how lovely the new year resolutions sound,,but its abt the values that drive u.. U may not basically punish yourself by binding by some resolutions if u have a clearly burning goal in front of u driven by the right value,fueled in the right association. For so many people one of the many factors that wld dissipate their energy, sap their passion and also divert their real priority and dream is the wrong association (pls get ur minds from the association of bad friends n enemies that u are used to on this piece...so cld get its best)) As loving and caring as some friends and family member may be..they cld be the wrong association to ur dreams if u dont own create a balance..this act may be unconsciously and ignorantly emanate from them... Yes! they mean no bad..but thats the best they cld offer u though.. They may love u and encourage u into making u live their dreams and shallow wishes for u.. Most people that fall prey to this are the categories of those who have a religious mentality about family comes 1st and also worship their Mentors beyond comprehension.. Well in my opinion I think ur purpose and destiny in God comes 1st...not their directives.(This shldnt breed rudeness and lack of respect to loved ones tho..so balance it). For all the advice any mentor or loved ones wld give u this year, note that u still have the right to choose for yourself your LIFE BY DESIGN as have heard/seen God reveal to u..(Because these days most elders and mentors insist on some things for people without any selfless and definite point)...the peak of it is when they now say if I be ur Uncle or Mentor obey what I just said. What they shld realize is that they shld forever keep earning trust with us and never impose trust on us @ any point .....as if to say if your life comes crashing 20yrs down the line as a result of that enforced on u they wld be there to be your god again. My point is ....the right mentor, association, and church wld make u grow so fast to the point where u no longer come back always to ask how this and that is done except once in a very long while. If their love and job has been rightly divided over the while u have been together well enough, u shldnt be dependent on them all your life by now after 5yrs. U shld be coming back mostly to say thank u... Than always coming over and over to share your confusion. (However they carve it such that u keep falling back to them as some now take pride in the census of people they mentor or come to them always for counseling...hmm and guess what happens on the long run....u may never grow beyond their organisation, thoughts or wishes for u...)) Some may hav prayed that u wld be celebrated all over the world....but deep in their hrt they believe u cant even earn any good reputation and notable influence in even ur locality let alone globally. Its your jobs to balance your life. God gave u your purpose...and not to them. This is what I mean by the wrong association....its not enough to be encouraged... And be given arms always . But most importantly u shld be able to see through their heart to know if they even believe in u well enough to the point of seeing u as the world best, having the job of ur dream, marrying the man of ur dream, owning the multimillion dollar firm...and lots more. If u dnt sit down to see through their words and to their heart u may never grow... U wld forever live within their small minds of u as long as u make them ur reference point and accountability partner even tho they love u . I do not mean to be religious...but... Som people may hav to change church... U hav been in a church for 5yrs now...and your life has never been better than the traditional design of go to school, graduate, get a job, marry ...and work for yrs then earn promotion. Your life just goes the usual way the world climbs up.... Nothing supernaturally significant U can lay hold of in ur life and when u look @ the testimonies of other church folks that makes it appear like God wld soon do yours..its the life of people who have been on the journey of life for long, who just joined the church because of the music and its new social network/association plus the petty non transformational sermon that keeps u coming over and over without a radical change in u and your life ...These peoples life may have started becoming ripe for them just before they just joined..not that the were taught and raised to such height from the scratch in such church.. Let me shock u. Most churches today do selective evangelism now ohh... They scout for people with near success result... So that quickly in 5yrs the church is filed with the wealthiest... Some organise programs strategically to gather only the wealthy or almost ripe( nothing wrong with such though)..If your back is still on the floor all u may be blessed by in this association is diplomatic love and sermon to sustain u only. And how u know this kinds is that a reasonable percentage of the best church workforce who started from scratch experience very slow natural pace of success in life.. Yet they are in every vigil and midweek... The pastor in his mind doesnt believe in u ohh...his eyes are on some of the bankers, Doctors nd politicians he is scouting for to be in his team....but he remains diplomatic to u...while u remain there with him for the rest 10yrs as they pour oil on u every Sunday...your major reward is to b be bragged with as his dearest beloved son.. Smh* Im not saying u shld quit serving God.. Nah.. Im not saying all churches are like this ...Nah! But.... Use your discretion this year.. There are still good churches.... Dnt get distracted with the music and social gathering of the church of today...filled with many religious meetings from week to week and b4 u know your 2015 is over.... Those meetings where designed by the pastor as his goals for the year.... Design urs too.... And if u are in the right place....your true values wld find expression in his goals...and before long your dreams too wld be achieved...along side the associations overall goals and activities. #Note.... That some association/churches may not make u blossom but may make others blossom... It thus doesnt mean they are not loving and not called... Nah.... Its just that your destiny may not be tied to their ministry. #Note Im not saying u shld be all about what u can get from an association/church and not what u can give...Nah! But even as u give serve as an usher or sanctuary unit, u shld see visible radical impact in your entire life too. ** U can be Loved but still be in the wrong association. **These day the wrong associations may not destroy u...but just keep your life on only fun and on the better edge of u instead of the best. #Live your Life by design as u abide in the Lord and advance his Kingdom. Dont be absorbed in a fair association.. Define your purpose and choose the best geography for it to blossom. #YourGreatnessBeckons. ......PROSPER SUIT-ETAKPOEFE. .
Posted on: Fri, 02 Jan 2015 11:51:02 +0000
Trending Topics
Recently Viewed Topics
© 2015