WATCH IT… A young lady had a habit of saying ALL THESE DIVORCEES whenever she meant to get at her female cousin that had a failed marriage. A few years down the line, she claimed to be getting married to a man she boasted so much about, too many ‘stories’ were involved but the crux of the gist is that, that marriage never saw the light of the day because that man never showed up at the altar…and she was about 4months pregnant at that time. The man has since married another lady and she is still in the ‘singles market’-saddled with a young daughter. And the lady she tagged a ‘divorcee’ has long remarried, blessed with three kids- a woman that was labeled ‘barren’ in her previous marriage. People have misfortunes in life and every time you allow yourself to ‘tag’ another, you are invariably writing them off- yet, you don’t know how your own story will turn out. For as long as we all breathe-the story is not finished for anybody. Life will always unfold in both pleasant and unpleasant phases for each of us. Whatever unpleasant experiences you let another go through in your hands-next time; it might be you that will be experiencing same (or worse) from another…it is called KARMA. We will be a lot more productive if we get busy improving our own lives and getting better by the day, instead of making ourselves the umpires of the ‘model’ life. It was the Dalai Lama that once said that Our prime purpose in this life is to help others. And if you cant help them, at least dont hurt them.” The next time you feel compelled to cast the stone, get to work on your own life because if care is not taken-your story may turn out worse than that of whom you have been condemning/judging…life is that unpredictable! AFTER THOUGHT: Nobody goes into a marriage to watch it pack up, it always starts with good intentions. Most people that find themselves in a failed marriage never imagined it would end that way but it did. Be careful how you judge every ‘divorcee’ that crosses your path in life…your own relationship/marriage can take an unexpected twist tomorrow. Nothing comes with a guarantee in life.
Posted on: Mon, 11 Nov 2013 03:18:15 +0000
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